Public identity

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  1. Thirdlegproduction

    Thirdlegproduction Formerly WhiteMonst3r
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    I've noticed as the older I get, the reasons for keeping my identity a secret seem to be getting less and less important.

    I have always been very carefull sharing private info with people and have only shown my face to people who I have talked to for a while and seen on cam.

    But lately a lot more sites ask you for a picture of your face for verification purposes when you register.

    Would it really destroy my reputation and credibility if people could connect my large penis and face together?
    I don't care that much anymore but still not comfortable enough to put my face out there.

    How do you feel about the cons and pro's of your internet identity becoming public?
     
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    The internet allows people to hide behind screen names. As a result, people tend to be freer in their interaction with strangers. However, when you the add the possibility of people 'misrepresenting' themselves (ie, lying about who they are, where they live, their gender, age, even dick size), the 'free' aspect becomes a possible liability.

    Has anyone on this forum ever had someone (from anyplace on the internet) misrepresent themself to you? I've had this happen and it makes me wary to exposing my face and other private details which can affect parts of my life in the non-sexual realm.

    It is odd that exposing my penis in a public way is less threatening to me...

    Unless the playing field is even, and both parties are willing to exchange email information as well as face pictures, I feel more comfortable remaining "thkbeercan" to people until I know who they really are and have developed a sense of trust about them. I have a number of internet friends that I have gotten to know and have met in person and would trust them implicitly. But this is not the norm for me; it is the exception rather than the rule.
     
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  3. Thirdlegproduction

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    people misrepresent themselves all the time online but what if people come up to you in real life and recognize you from the internet and say hey i saw your video/pics.

    If you're not a congressmember like mr Weiner how much trouble could it give?

    I feel that its different for men and women too but I'll see what the reactions are.
     
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    If youre not famous, or rich, nobody cares really. I unfortunately don't have millions in the bank or an Oscar on my mantle so i really couldn't give a fiddl ers fuck!!! Its there, you 'found' it on the internet? What were you looking for, little fluffy kittens? :D lol
     
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    Of course, I;m not in politics, or some other high ranking position, but with the pics I have here, if someone really knew me, they'de recognize me.

    I'm a firm believer in "what I do in my private time is my business", plus if it's bad for me to be here, what are you (them) doing here??

    I guess like you, as I got older, my fear of what others may think started diminishing.

    Your choice :smile:
     
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    I guess it would depend on if you really want everyone to know about this part of your life. Personally I don't find the idea very appealing. I prefer to be a private/ closet freak.
     
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    Because I have my own business and work with clients that have kids, I think I should preserve my anonymity. I very much doubt that it would get back to anyone I know that I have pics of my junk online, but I shouldn't take that chance.
     
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    Judgement on women is often very harsh.

    Only few exceptions I can think of where it worked in their favor is with the likes of Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton.

    Actually most of today's most famous actresses started out doing nude scenes in whatever form.
     
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    My life is pretty much an open book, but I still prefer compartmentalizing who knows what about me. My name, my workplace and my home address are known, or at least partially known to a broad spectrum of people both online and IRL.

    But some people are just weirdos: I've had trolls and I've had stalkers. So now I'm much more cautious. I have a huge rule about never bringing anyone back from the bar I work in: I don't want the gossip and I don't want the genpop knowing where I live. I also have a rule, though not at all as strict, about people online knowing my full name or where specifically I work: several members here have met me in person, both here in SoFla and in NYC, and I've been very open about all that. And several of my Facebook friends are folks I met here and other spots online.

    I just want it to remain at my discretion who knows what, and so far that hasn't been a problem.
     
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    Can't stop laughing at your gif. Anyway, as far as personal information, I'll tell people the general area in which I live (Atlanta) but I mean... I'm not going to put my face on here or give my address on the same reason I wouldn't on the BMW fourm page, it's no one's bussiness.
     
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    You also have to think of the future. With more and more employees having a look at peoples online history before they employ them, it could be a bit risky to have yourself too easily identifiable.
     
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    I prefer my privacy....once your pic is on the net..you cant take it back.
    I had one pic of me holding my hard on w/ face in pic(yes i was trying to impress a girl) and somehow it got on another site..never again..3rd leg you should have been in porn..lol
     
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    I too do not share face pics unless I've developed a mutual sense of trust with the individual. And posting pics that include your face (or other identifying feature) along with your dick is risky simply because you never know where the image may wind up being posted by someone else. I don't worry about who sees me on LPSG, because they're here with the same prurient interests that I share. But I've encountered any number of my dick pics posted by other people far and wide on the World Wide Web and with that kind of exposure I sure wouldn't want my identity to be obvious.
     
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    Well i haven't put my real name or fone number or even my email on here so how would i be identified? Does anybody even know anything about me here? I doubt it
     
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    At 25, you are not that old.

    You have a long life ahead... Lots of circumstances will change.
    Relationships will emerge... and opportunities arise that may well result in dramatic shifts in your career, residence, and notoriety.

    Increasingly, potential employers and potential lovers turn to sophisticated search engines to delve into your background.
    This includes the emerging and ever improving field of automated photo recognition.

    We are not far off from a time when you will be able to enter someone's name, and every single picture ever posted of that person will be found in a search... which will lead to aliases, usernames, and every single posting you ever made... thru your entire life.

    While you may care less and less who knows about your interests in this site... can you say that everyone who may be important to some aspect of your future ambitions will be as blase?

    Many people are so conservative as to find any interaction on such a site as this as being perverse. And they would find pictures posted of one's own genitals to be at the very least, indicative of very poor judgement.

    Not a problem as regards most strangers... but what if such a person has the power to give you a well deserved promotion?
    Look at what happened to Anthony Wiener... and he did nothing even remotely illegal...


    Like a 20 something who gets an ill advised tattoo on his face... your irrevocable actions as a young man can severely limit your options in the future.

    For these reasons, alone, it is a very good idea to try and keep your identity online as much in your control as possible. In particular, Keep those aspects of your sexual proclivities to which many others might react narrow mindedly confined to arenas in which you can control who gets to know your true identity.

    While I think there is nothing shameful about sexuality, or what gets discussed here... I am intelligent enough to realize that MOST people do not share my open minded perspective. To that end, I do not open myself to examination in this area, not so much to conceal myself... but to be respectful of other people's limitations and tendency to judgement.


    What will be available, in the future, in terms of automated systems that can ferret out everything you ever did online, is hard to predict. It will almost certainly be broader than can be imagined.

    Think about your wildest ambitions... your dreams come true, in love, in career, in civic or social prominence...
    And ask yourself if anything you have done online has the potential to torpedo those aspirations on the cusp of coming true...

    Would the girl of your dreams dump you if she found out about your cam activity?
    Would you not be considered for partner at the ripe age of 45 because of things you posted at 25?


    We all do better in life when we can retain the power to present to others those aspects of ourselves that those others are most likely to understand and sympathize with.

    My boss does not need to know about my feelings on cocksucking, anymore than he needs to know who I voted for.

    The fantasies I have at 50 are nothing like the fantasies I entertained at 25... I would prefer to be able to let my own past fall away, so that others see me as I am, here and now.


    Revealing too much of your identity online, is like walking down the street with your tax return stapled to your chest.
    ...or your dick hanging out your fly.
     
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    I keep my indentity well hidden. I doubt someone can point me out in my pic. Aside from the shades and hat you can't see my chiseled facial features due to the quality of the webcam I used to snap the pic.

    And I'm young and don't know what my career will be. I could very well end up being a public figure so its best I don't take snap shots of my face or pics with my visible tats etc.....
     
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    Interesting thread but really dont see what the worry is about. I m not famous either but have had my cock pics stolen off of websites for people to use for their own profile. i should be flattered I guess but find it sad. Just think, these people represent something they dont have. I dont think they ever will meet someone in real life cause obviously they wont have what they are showing. One of my friends assets pics was done the same way and me and a few other guys saw it and called the guy with the profile on it. The profile disappeared.

    As far as legal identity theft, unless you give out specific personal information online which is something that one should NEVER do. I wouldnt worry.

    Finally, v recognition factor. OWN IT! If you got it flaunt it. LOL Many a time i go through an airport or public area and sometimes get looks, stares, ( and drools LOL) . If they dont have the balls enough to say Hi dont worry about it, these are strangers that you are probably never going to see again and be proud of who you are. Most employers cannot discriminate based upon your personal life or preferences. ( lol Look at the politicians, lawyers etc ) So unless you have a high security level position again... I wouldnt worry about it.
     
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    i've been recognised in the street in 3 different countries by half a dozen people from this site and it's never bothered me. obviously i dont have a penis but i do have partially naked pics of myself up. why would i be bothered about people recognising me? why would anyone else? people can recognise you from facebook but it doesn't concern the general public.
    i hate it when there arent any face pics on here. and the old adage because i dont wnt it to interfere with my job" thing isn't valid. anyone at your work that sees your profile, had to be on the site themselves to see it so they are just as "wrong" as you would be. and if you have a wife/partner that you don't want to see you on here, then your intentions can't be ery loyal and you should either break up with them or start being faithful. i know people will probably slate me for my opinions but hey, they're mine so get over it.
    xoxoxo
     
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    The last year or so decided i would be a bit more open considering i was viewing dick pics here and not willing to share mine (lucky for yous)
    I thought at least ONE face pic to give people 'an idea' of who rbkwp was sufficient so there it is.

    Apart from that i am a firm believer that we should all use discretion' as no doubt about it there will always be 1-2-3 or more MAD BASTARDS out there and for whatever insane reason would set out to destroy your personality, online or whatever.
    enz
     
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    Meh, I never give out any personal info that could come back to haunt me.

    And as far as someone recognizing me by photos, what's the most they could do? Tell people that I have a large dick and that they have proof of it?

    Either way, I'm not that concerned, and I don't have that much to lose if the "secret" gets out.
     
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