well girls dont really have any clue of why men enjoy masturbate in public, or circle jerks, or the curiousity of oral and the dick it self. Not having testosterone they cant make decisions regarding boys sexuality when we are in adolescence. I was sheltered by my mom and who was one of these feminine activist. I always was embarassed by her and she had no clue of why us boys at 14 enjoy masturbating in the woods, out doors with others especially older guys. though I would like to have jo with guys my age in 7th grade you never would becuase you could never knowif they would say something to others and ruin your reputation and be called a faggot. That was the most traumatic to me at 13/14. not some older guy who i didnt mind giving me a bj. "guys" whats your opinion?