when I was younger I thought my balls were defective cause everyone I had seen and all the sex ed drawings had the testicles hang lower than the dick. I actually was quite concerned they were mutant or something, when I tried to find average sizes i mostly found penis length and noted that I was the average of about 6" this made me more upset knowing my dick was the right length but seemed balls were tiny and didnt hang right. I ask in sex ed and actually got scolded, to which I learned from a friend the average of 6 was erect not soft and my balls were likely normal just the dong was the mutant part.
Since then Ive grown to love showing off my flaccid dick. I find if you think about how hot it is and about being really relaxed things loosen up and dangle more. I find it harder to make sure it doesnt get the plump fluffed look myself, but thats because knowing people see it turns my crank.