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Back in the late 90’s I had numerous hot encounters in the restrooms on the SMU university campus here in Dallas. The student union was almost always good for some understall action, and could go across to another building to get together in a stall if wanted. I traded blow jobs with one of the hottest guys ever in the library one evening there. Brings back some great memories!
 

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Back in the late 90’s I had numerous hot encounters in the restrooms on the SMU university campus here in Dallas. The student union was almost always good for some understall action, and could go across to another building to get together in a stall if wanted. I traded blow jobs with one of the hottest guys ever in the library one evening there. Brings back some great memories!
Yes, college cruising once was so great!!!
 

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Back in the late 90’s I had numerous hot encounters in the restrooms on the SMU university campus here in Dallas. The student union was almost always good for some understall action, and could go across to another building to get together in a stall if wanted. I traded blow jobs with one of the hottest guys ever in the library one evening there. Brings back some great memories!
Based on my experience, college campus actions are hits and missed, all depends on the school and the type of students goes there. Some are more prevalent than others, to me, I got lots of "gay" encounters in men's room at student union or library at private catholic schools than the non-catholic or public schools during my time in undergrad and graduate schools.
In fact, the first time I got the idea of how "understall" playing was when I was in the Men's room on a college campus. We passed a written note back and forth while we're the only 2 there and the guy instructed me to kneel on the floor facing his side so he can play with my cock, I let him jerked me off and shot my load right there, then he asked me if I wanted to jerk him off, I said: no, but I watched him jerked off and added his load right on top of mine. I wasn't completely comfortable in gay sex than the guy I was with at that time, he was a nice looking guy, about 20 years old and had a nice size, above average cut cock. We met and chat a little afterwards, he commented that I've a great looking cock. Yes, it does bring back lots of memories.
 

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I’m curious from those that went to college how you would find guys that were interested in guys or wanting head without risking that they didn’t like no or gay men and beat you up? Especially those guys that were in college before smart phones and internet.
 
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Based on my experience, college campus actions are hits and missed, all depends on the school and the type of students goes there. Some are more prevalent than others, to me, I got lots of "gay" encounters in men's room at student union or library at private catholic schools than the non-catholic or public schools during my time in undergrad and graduate schools.
In fact, the first time I got the idea of how "understall" playing was when I was in the Men's room on a college campus. We passed a written note back and forth while we're the only 2 there and the guy instructed me to kneel on the floor facing his side so he can play with my cock, I let him jerked me off and shot my load right there, then he asked me if I wanted to jerk him off, I said: no, but I watched him jerked off and added his load right on top of mine. I wasn't completely comfortable in gay sex than the guy I was with at that time, he was a nice looking guy, about 20 years old and had a nice size, above average cut cock. We met and chat a little afterwards, he commented that I've a great looking cock. Yes, it does bring back lots of memories.
For some of us understall playing was how we got out first encounters and so began a long and delicious history of cock fun. I to was tossed off under the partition while the guy was full length on the floor beating his meat, I shot my load in his hand his cum, went on my leg. Some partitions were high enough to enable a blow job, not easy or comfortable but satisfying, spent quiet a lot of time lying on the floor sucking cock and cum shots. One guy tried a fuck but alas not quite enough space for that but his did cover my asshole nicely even if he dint properly penetrate.
 

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I’m curious from those that went to college how you would find guys that were interested in guys or wanting head without risking that they didn’t like no or gay men and beat you up? Especially those guys that were in college before smart phones and internet.

i can only speak for a post smartphone world but grindr, squirt, bbrt, a4a. doubelist, sniffies were super helpful for when i was at college for setting up understall encounters/quick public hookups and knowing cruising spots, when the most action is there, etc (grindr, squirt,and sniffies are best for that since grindr and sniffies have updating distances // squirt and sniffies both have a list of nearby hotspots & latest activity).

pre-internet (from what i gather) it was basically a very secretive and learned code system taking advantage of public bathrooms that had a plausible deniability that you would go but also infrequent non-cruising people entering, which is why malls/colleges/parks (and gyms/saunas) were hot spots. theres also park trail cruising which had a different language and etiquette and bathhouse/adult theater specific set of rules.

of course that language and signals are still used now (even if you pre-set something up, since most often than not, its anonymous the whole way through, and you dont want to risk accidentally rushing with someone who has no interest)

if you want a more info on how or tips of how to stay safe and not get yourself into trouble squirt has some pretty great tips: Gay Cruising | Best Gay Cruising Spots| Gay Cottaging | Gay Guide |Cruising for Sex | Gay Cruising Guide| Gay Cruising Areas - Squirt.org
 

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I’m curious from those that went to college how you would find guys that were interested in guys or wanting head without risking that they didn’t like no or gay men and beat you up? Especially those guys that were in college before smart phones and internet.

Most of it was under the stall or through a gloryhole. There was 3 bathrooms that got the most attention. And a few others that were very hit and miss. I always find the hottest guys in the hit and miss bathrooms. Too much competition in the other ones.

I do not remember how I found out about this, but there was a book on the lowest level of the stacks in the library. The book was called ” The Actor's Handbook". You would write a message on a piece of paper, fold it up and slip it into the checkout card pocket. Other gay men would do the same. I would go down there about every other day and check for notes. I made a "penpal" through that and chatted with about 5 other guys. The only thing that ever came from it was the penpal and I would write to other quite a bit. We picked a different unused book to pass our notes. He was very in the closet and couldn't imagine meeting a guy (even though I know he had hooked up with a friend of mine). I told him about the gay bars and adult bookstores and he said he could never go into a place like that.

The summer after I had left school, I was near the campus so I stopped in to check out the bathrooms. I also ran down to check out the Actor's Handbook. The place was usually dead, but I immediately recognized my penpal sitting at a cubicle near the book. I think he recognized me, but when I pulled the book off the shelf and looked for notes, he knew it was me. I looked back at him and he had tipped his chair backwards to show that his shorts were undone and his hard cock was out. He was stroking his cock until we heard a couple of girls walking a few rows over. I stayed by the book but when he realized they kept walking, he started jerking again. And within a few minutes, he shot his load on some tissues. I told him thanks and quickly left.

10 years later, he was starring in gay porn movies. He now runs his own gay porn studio with his husband. Definitely not the closet case I remember.
 

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I used to be a lifeguard and had some interesting experiences in swimming pool and beach locker rooms.

I still get hard quickly when I smell Hawaiian Tropic sunblock lotion.

NCbear (who’s got a good memory for more than just sights and sounds)
Please tell usa that interesting experiences
 
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Man there was some great play in the bathrooms at UGA in the early 90s. I had many of discrete encounters.
Same at UGA in the mid-80's....saw a lot of action in the bathrooms and stacks of the library....
 

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Ya, did some under stall action at my university. The double doors made it perfect to not get caught. Every kind of guy did it.

In terms of the floor and bathroom thing, it’s not bad and kinda hot. Esp for people who get a thrill of fooling around in public. Similar to feeling like going at it outside or in a random area dark corner of a sweat filled leather bar. It dirty hot lol.
 

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Ya, did some under stall action at my university. The double doors made it perfect to not get caught. Every kind of guy did it.

In terms of the floor and bathroom thing, it’s not bad and kinda hot. Esp for people who get a thrill of fooling around in public. Similar to feeling like going at it outside or in a random area dark corner of a sweat filled leather bar. It dirty hot lol.
Unfortunately, the university I went to didn't have any double door entrances to the bathrooms. The most playful bathroom was located right off a small hallway. It was easy to hear somebody coming down the hall because the walking noises (even tennis shoes) was amplified off the tile floor and the very small hallway. The other bathrooms in the library, the entrance doors opened directly towards the stall area. Luckily the urinals were out of sight from the door, but most of the action was in the stalls.
 

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Unfortunately, the university I went to didn't have any double door entrances to the bathrooms. The most playful bathroom was located right off a small hallway. It was easy to hear somebody coming down the hall because the walking noises (even tennis shoes) was amplified off the tile floor and the very small hallway. The other bathrooms in the library, the entrance doors opened directly towards the stall area. Luckily the urinals were out of sight from the door, but most of the action was in the stalls.

Sounds cool. I was always worried about playing at the urinals with less cover and just thought the guy coming in could feel that me and the guy at the urinal directly next to me we’re fooling around.

Ya, double doors were the best. Jerked with students, freshman, and a couple professors. Awesome to shoot a load on the floor.