- jp,
After a few weeks at showering at the gym, I've become way more comfortable naked, even popped a semi for a second, went back down but was hanging heavy. Here's a couple observations.
1. People will look at your dick, even straight dudes. Guys have def looked at my dick. All this time, my straight friends always have claimed that they've NEVER looked at another guys dick. It's not true. They're not staring, but I've seen guys look at my dick, take it in, and then move on, no big deal, didn't seem sexual either, just checking it out.
2.Some guys will actually show off, or it appeared that way. One guy just took his time, he would step away from the shower head, lathered up, went back to rinse, then repeated the whole thing a couple times. He also faced out the whole time and would pull on his cock every once in a while. He was very fit and hung too, I figure that's probably why he's showing off. He saw me looking, turned towards me and continued showing off. I turned towards him for a second to show off, but then turned back to the shower head because I'm not sure if that's even a thing that people do.
3. I think other guys dicks always look bigger than your own because of the overhead viewing angle. I kept seeing guys thinking, whoa, they're hung too, then I'd look down and feel kinda small. But at home I checked myself in the mirror and imagined what they'd think looking at me, and then considering their viewing angle of their own dick, I felt fine and figured they thought the same about mine.
Overall, the whole shower thing isn't a big deal. You get in, you get out, some guys linger a little bit longer than other, some guys look, other guys don't, and it's all pretty non sexual. I do think there's probably some protocol and etiquette that I don't know yet. Like the guy showing off, no one seemed bothered, maybe I did the wrong thing by looking at him, I don't know yet. Any advice, am I reading the whole thing wrong?
1. People will look at your dick, even straight dudes. Guys have def looked at my dick. All this time, my straight friends always have claimed that they've NEVER looked at another guys dick. It's not true. They're not staring, but I've seen guys look at my dick, take it in, and then move on, no big deal, didn't seem sexual either, just checking it out.
2.Some guys will actually show off, or it appeared that way. One guy just took his time, he would step away from the shower head, lathered up, went back to rinse, then repeated the whole thing a couple times. He also faced out the whole time and would pull on his cock every once in a while. He was very fit and hung too, I figure that's probably why he's showing off. He saw me looking, turned towards me and continued showing off. I turned towards him for a second to show off, but then turned back to the shower head because I'm not sure if that's even a thing that people do.
3. I think other guys dicks always look bigger than your own because of the overhead viewing angle. I kept seeing guys thinking, whoa, they're hung too, then I'd look down and feel kinda small. But at home I checked myself in the mirror and imagined what they'd think looking at me, and then considering their viewing angle of their own dick, I felt fine and figured they thought the same about mine.
Overall, the whole shower thing isn't a big deal. You get in, you get out, some guys linger a little bit longer than other, some guys look, other guys don't, and it's all pretty non sexual. I do think there's probably some protocol and etiquette that I don't know yet. Like the guy showing off, no one seemed bothered, maybe I did the wrong thing by looking at him, I don't know yet. Any advice, am I reading the whole thing wrong?