nwestaway: So I have just moved and I have started swimming at a local swimming pool. After swimming I went into the change room and notice that the guy who was swimming beside me had also finished and is also going to the change room. He is around his late 30's nice build and nice bulge but nothing extraordinary. So I go to shower and he comes to the same area and uses the shower at the other end of the row (about 6 in row) then he removes his speedo and he has the biggest dick I have ever seen. I am about average being 4in soft and 6 1/2in hard but this guy must have been about 6in and thick, but the suprising this was as he soaped himself up and he was stroking it a little he stayed totally soft and it must have grown to about 8in. I had to turn off the hot water and have a cold shower so I didn't get too excited. I have 2 questions: Have you ever been suprised at a guys size after checking out his average or mall bulge? and Are most big guys able to stay soft and gain alot of size? Nick.