Pumped and hopped into bed with gf. she asked me if it was swollen.

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Well, I posted a few weeks ago about having sex with my girlfriend after pumping. She never said anything about the size difference then. Tonight I pumped again and got my usual 7.5x6" pump (unpumped it's 7x5),and got into bed with my sleeping gf. I placed her hand on my cock. Now 95percent of the time, when I do that she will squeeze it a couple of times and roll over on me. But just like the other times when I pumped before bed she started stroking it. And this time she finally asked me about the size. She asked me if my penis was swollen, and said it felt swollen. For some reason I still didn't tell her I had been penis pumping. I just said no, and started kissing her. Then I pulled her panties down and tried to fuck her. My penis wasn't wanting to fit so I grabed some lube. I felt like I saw a look of sceptisism on her face like she knew something was up, but she didn't say anything else. We fucked, she got close to cumming, but didn't. I could tell that she was into it, but the sex was hurting her a little bit (which happens when I haven't pumped too). I feel like I'm going to have to fess up to pumping soon. I'm just a little embaressed and nervous about how she will take it.
 

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Forgive me if I'm being a dumb blond but if it hurts your girlfriend when you have sex after pumping why do you do it?

Seems a bit pointless to me.
 

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Sometimes sex hurts for her even with my regular size. If she doesn't like me having a bigger dick then I will stop pumping. She was into the sex, I'm not sure if it was just the normal pain that she feels during sex or if it was due to my increased girth. I think the pain comes from my dickhead hitting certian parts of her. So I wouldn't think extra girth would make that worse. One of these days I will tell her I'm pumping and we'll figure it out.
 

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So if it hurts when regular size why try to make it bigger? It sounds as if you are big enough already, plus aren't you damaging your cock with all this pumping? By the looks of your pics I find it amazing that she doesn't notice.
 

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He hasn't mentioned what hurts- are you going too deep? Is she not wet enough (you mentioned lube, maybe more would solve the problem? Or taking things slower)

And pumping, if done correctly, shouldn't be damaging him- just like any form of pe, or any form of working out really, he should have started out slow and always be reading his body- if his cock still works fine without pumping, there should be nothing to worry about

As for telling her, that seems like it'll be embarrassing- but, if you trust her shouldn't that be alright?
 

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hahaha this happened to me after I used the my penomet for the first time. Best pump I ever bought. Sometimes though it can look more swollen than it looks "big". Thats why I always Jelq and then pump, then repeat.

Congrats on your lady taking notice man, shows you are doing something right.
 

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So if it hurts when regular size why try to make it bigger? It sounds as if you are big enough already, plus aren't you damaging your cock with all this pumping? By the looks of your pics I find it amazing that she doesn't notice.
I try to make it bigger because I'm a man, and I have the same issues most other men have about their penis size. That said, I'm pretty sure it's my length that hurts her, not the girth. And I've always felt like my penis is too skinny, so I pump to make it thicker, because I have weird body issues about it.
As far as damaging my penis goes, I have pumped for a year now and my penis is working as good as ever. So I think it's fine as long as I don't overdo it.
 

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Yesterday after having sex she mentioned the size difference. She said "Oh, it's not swollen anymore, It was weird you penis seemed swollen the other day. My grip was different. "
Also last night, I placed her hand on my unpumped cock, and she didn't rub it like the last few times I did that after I pumped. I might pump again tonight and see what happens.
 

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If you're good with your length, but would like to add girth, you should try a cock ring. I am 5.5" midshaft and a cockring brings me to 6". Don't get the super stretchy ones though, I like the "doc johnson titan".

Also for pe work you could try clamping.
 

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Sir1826 you have to fess up your pumping. Leave your pump somewhere in your home where she will find it. She may or may not be upset with you when she explains how she found something odd lying about your home. But don't let her embaress you by it. Explain that your manhood is very important to you and that you have no intention of hurting her by using it. This has been going on for over a month or longer and must be resolved.
 

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I try to make it bigger because I'm a man, and I have the same issues most other men have about their penis size. That said, I'm pretty sure it's my length that hurts her, not the girth. And I've always felt like my penis is too skinny, so I pump to make it thicker, because I have weird body issues about it.
As far as damaging my penis goes, I have pumped for a year now and my penis is working as good as ever. So I think it's fine as long as I don't overdo it.

Dude, I would have to think that what is hurting her is your length. You are probably slamming against her cervix - not all women like that. Try a more shallow fuck and when you really get into it, slowly go in further pushing GENTLY against her cervix. If she is enjoying the extra girth, and you know where her G Spot is, then work all that and maybe she will bottom out for you.