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Not a question, just rambling, maybe purely for self gratification.
I just read -and enjoyed - LaFemme's thread "Fellating the Ego". ***Full disclosure - I worship LaFemme from afar. Genie's out of the bottle. Sorry LaFemme, you're stuck with me.
Penis size fixation. Concave armpits. Thigh gap. Bikini bridge (that's a thing?). Etc etc. I'm afraid Mother Nature stopped the evolution of the Male gender of our race eons ago.
I've never compared the ladies I've been with to each other or anyone else. Not to them and not to my friends. That's crass. Nor have I criticized anyone - that's horrible behaviour. My thinning hair and dad bod (which I've flaunted since adolescence unfortunately) would make me an easy target for retribution.
I'm average in every way yet the women I've been with were into me and I loved them, and they were of all shapes and sizes. Their most attractive qualities? They liked me for me, in spite of my terrible flaws that only I could see apparently. Were they perfect 10's? In my eyes, absolutely.
As I've gotten older I feel I've become more attractive to women (and some men judging from the comments I get here) but I think it's because I've become comfortable being me finally. I'm still a dork; still need to exercise and lose the spare tire; average or just above in the "downstairs" department. The women in my social circle are more mature (age and/or attitude) than in the past. They appreciate the qualities of a good person over body parts.
My significant other hates her body - hates it. I love it, mainly because it's attached to her heart. She's the sexiest, most attractive, perfect person I've ever known and it's generated from within her soul. And she's experienced the same poor behavior you all have. I've finally convinced her that the negative comments were bullshit drivel coming from the mouths of boys. Schoolyard-fratboy bullies.
I know there are critical, judgemental women out there - I'm just lucky I never ran across any, because I'd be an easy target. I'm sorry you wonderful ladies - indeed all ladies - have to deal with the (hopefully) small percentage of jerks that allow their insecurities translate into meanness ridiculous assumptions.
That's it. I just cant believe some of the stuff I read here and some of the attitudes you have to put up with. I just felt compelled to say something.
Now back to your regularly scheduled programming...
I just read -and enjoyed - LaFemme's thread "Fellating the Ego". ***Full disclosure - I worship LaFemme from afar. Genie's out of the bottle. Sorry LaFemme, you're stuck with me.
Penis size fixation. Concave armpits. Thigh gap. Bikini bridge (that's a thing?). Etc etc. I'm afraid Mother Nature stopped the evolution of the Male gender of our race eons ago.
I've never compared the ladies I've been with to each other or anyone else. Not to them and not to my friends. That's crass. Nor have I criticized anyone - that's horrible behaviour. My thinning hair and dad bod (which I've flaunted since adolescence unfortunately) would make me an easy target for retribution.
I'm average in every way yet the women I've been with were into me and I loved them, and they were of all shapes and sizes. Their most attractive qualities? They liked me for me, in spite of my terrible flaws that only I could see apparently. Were they perfect 10's? In my eyes, absolutely.
As I've gotten older I feel I've become more attractive to women (and some men judging from the comments I get here) but I think it's because I've become comfortable being me finally. I'm still a dork; still need to exercise and lose the spare tire; average or just above in the "downstairs" department. The women in my social circle are more mature (age and/or attitude) than in the past. They appreciate the qualities of a good person over body parts.
My significant other hates her body - hates it. I love it, mainly because it's attached to her heart. She's the sexiest, most attractive, perfect person I've ever known and it's generated from within her soul. And she's experienced the same poor behavior you all have. I've finally convinced her that the negative comments were bullshit drivel coming from the mouths of boys. Schoolyard-fratboy bullies.
I know there are critical, judgemental women out there - I'm just lucky I never ran across any, because I'd be an easy target. I'm sorry you wonderful ladies - indeed all ladies - have to deal with the (hopefully) small percentage of jerks that allow their insecurities translate into meanness ridiculous assumptions.
That's it. I just cant believe some of the stuff I read here and some of the attitudes you have to put up with. I just felt compelled to say something.
Now back to your regularly scheduled programming...