i've got a chinese girlfriend and she frequently complains of pussy injuries. now i've tried using lube, going in slow, not putting my whole length in, but most of the time she's put off by my size. has anyone else had this issue? any tips or suggestions?
use to have the same problem. still do, but far less frequently. we go with more foreplay, oral, diff positions (cowgirl or missionary) and taking it slow - talk through it. or you can just rip her pussy apart and go raw.
I am having the same issues. But from the womens side .. take it slow and easy. lots of foreplay and oral ..This has helped me ...
In my experiences (and I date mostly black men) the way to go is find her gspot and/or the most pleasuable position for her. The more pleasure my pussy feels, the more 'forgiving' it is with size (a pussy can be nearly elastic when treated properly!) On the SAME NOTE: pain has the opposite effect.... As soon as I have the feeling of pain, my pussy shuts down (litterally), and clamps down faster than a maximum security prison at bed time.... ACCESS DENIED. hope this helps!
In my experiences (and I date mostly black men) the way to go is find her gspot and/or the most pleasuable position for her. The more pleasure my pussy feels, the more 'forgiving' it is with size (a pussy can be nearly elastic when treated properly!) On the SAME NOTE: pain has the opposite effect.... As soon as I have the feeling of pain, my pussy shuts down (litterally), and clamps down faster than a maximum security prison at bed time.... ACCESS DENIED. hope this helps!
I've had those problems too. keep going with foreplay, lube and starting slow. if shes on top she can control it too until shes warmed up and more comfortable taking it.
This is why I originally joined this site. I was dating a Chinese girl and she was having trouble handling my size. She actually was married and hadn't been having sex with her husband for quite some time, months at least. And according to her, he was a lot smaller than me. She was really not adjusting well. Lots of oral, and avoiding certain positions were I was able to thrust deep, like doggy, or any bent over from behind position, and she adjusted over time. It's happened before and since, and yeah it was mostly with Asian girls. Another Chinese girl who was inexperienced, and a tiny Filipino girl who also had the absolute tightest, wettest, and inferno hot pussy I've ever felt. But the second one seemed to enjoy the experience of being too small for me for some reason. Some girls you can hit their cervix and it's unpleasant, but not awful. For others it's complete and utter torture. She was in the first group, thankfully. If you let them get on top and control penetration, that can be a big help as well.
Do you eat her out? My wife gets sore every time we fuck and we rarely do it back-to-back days for that reason. But it seems better if I eat her out first and she's super wet by the time I fuck her. If I fuck her before eating her out, she says she's more sore.
This is a common problem. Most women simply don't like pain. The solution is the same old - more foreplay, go slower, use lube, and so on and so forth. Most importantly, make her feel comfortable and relaxed.
I'm a black female and my pussy is quarter-sized: one or more fingers can't fit. So, it's not just the Orientals with small pussies, guys. I'm aware most of you are fair-minded and not stereotyping ethinic women, but not all black women have full-liped, larged, engorged pussies -- this one doesn't.
