pussy soreness

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  1. kc2007

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    I have a quick question for you ladies. Can masturbating hard lead to the same soreness that having sex with a thick dick can?

    I ask because I just witnessed the hottest cam video I've ever seen. This half asian chick on this site MyFreeCams.com just masturbated hard for about 45 minutes, all while chatting with a headset mic and typing while dudes tipped her "tokens". A few minutes after she laid a towel beneath herself, she gyrated and came and squirted straight into the air. This was all in the "free chat" I just made up name and I'm watching this shit live. In fact, she's still on and chatting in another window I have open. She is noticeably tired with her hair wet with sweat, and I'm 99% sure the whole thing was real. She knew her way around her pussy and how to make herself cum. She's an American from Seattle, cute as hell, and seems super down to earth to top things off. Wow.

    Anyway, back to my question, since she was going at her pussy pretty hard between diddling, 2 fingers inside, and switching between 2 slimmer dildos for a LONG time. Is this a totally different sensation than the "stretching" soreness that can come from just 15 minutes of fucking a big cock, or are some girls just built differently, meaning they are less sensitive down there?
     
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    I've never felt any soreness from stretching after sex. All my soreness if any has always been from impact, or friction. The only way I can do that kind of damage during masturbation is to continue to rub my clit after I am no longer wet, or before I get wet without some type of lubrication, or accidentally poke my cervix, or use a toy that is too hard. If I'm using dildos I picked out, and my fingers, odds are I can diddle all day without injury or regret.
     
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    ok, then that's what i meant...the friction, not the stretching is what causes the soreness after intercourse. I suppose with a woman in charge of things herself, all the elements involved can be controlled more easily than from a guy just ramming away.
     
  4. dolfette

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    yes.

    i have bruised my clit.
     
  5. RawDog

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    There are 3 kinds of soreness my wife feels after about 45 minutes to an hour of sex:

    1) Her legs/hips. This is simply from the cardio workout.

    2) The deep spot. Contrary to popular belief, there is feeling beyond the first 3". When we're grinding down and deep, an ache starts developing from the pressure. This almost always happens when I'm on top and she's got her legs on my shoulders, or she does me cowgirl and she's sitting straight up, grinding. Our solution is to switch to a position where penetration isn't as deep (sex swing, scissors, missionary with her legs down) or where her canal is extended allowing me to go deep without pain (doggy)

    3) The entrance to her vagina (her introitus). This is where girth is a mixed blessing. It makes sex more enjoyable, but there's only so much that lube can make a difference with. Our only solution's been after the fact; to cool it down with a cold compress. It's kind of a catch-22 this one is. As her labia, skin and muscles around that area get sore, they get puffy and swollen making the fit even tighter, making the area even more prone to more intense rubbing.

    All of the above is true only for sex, not masturbating. Masturbating, she's got her legs relaxed, almost never goes deep when she penetrates herself, and she has no toys wider than my cock.
     
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    Yes I've gotten sore from that before. If I play for along time or more than once a day with my toys I can get sore. Especially around the entrance, my clit, and sometimes my lips around the entrance. The toys that I play with normally are pretty slim, so it can definately happen to us just like it can to guys!

    However if I play with a girthy toy I always get sore.... but it's worth it!
     
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    I have become sore whilst using toys if i use massive/girthy ones straight away without using lube or being very wet to start with.Thing is,i adore the stinging and the pain of it hence why i do it.
     
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    I have made myself sore masturbating. Years ago, I was on a SSRI for a few months and I lost my ability to orgasm. I tried so long I got sore on my labia and clit.

    TheBoyfriend has made me so sore before that it hurt to sit down for a few days afterwards. He didn't mean to, he was just too rough with his equipment and he felt like a heel afterward. I've never gotten that sore masturbating.
     
  9. RawDog

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    I'm bumping this thread because we found a new solution to this problem. Months ago I installed a bidet and I've always been the one using it. My wife hated it because there's no way to adjust the temperature since it's hooked into the cold water supply line going into the tank. (You all probably know where I'm going with this now)

    Anyway, she's been suffering with more and more frequent UTI like symptoms whenever we go at it for more than an hour at a time. To alleviate the soreness *while* she pees after sex, she turns on the bidet and leans way forward so the water hits her vagina. The cold water from the bidet mixed with the hot urine makes the water lukewarm on contact. By the time she's done peeing she leaves the bidet on and the ice-cold water ends up soothing the area by quite a bit.

    Voila, no more UTIs. She hasn't had one for weeks now.
     
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    Yes, it is possible to get very sore this way even if you are not doing it to yourself. Hubby has made me very sore from just playing with me for a really longtime. I cannot say the soreness is any different from intercourse.
     
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    I've gotten myself sore with toys, but never as sore as my man gets me. There's soreness just from the workout of sex, but as others have said, I get sore deep inside myself and all over my lips and clit from rough sex (which I love). To me it's a good feeling when you sit down or move a bit or whatever and feel that aching soreness after good sex! I just smile when I have a sore pussy and remember how it got that way :)
     
  12. The Dragon

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    Yes it can be a bit sore after very vigorous physical sex and sometimes after masturbation.
    I push ice cubes into my vagina and will hold a cold pack to the vulva to reduce the bruising and take some codeine.
     
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    All I can do is add my name to this and say, DITTO for everything listed.

    The wife feels that "intense pressure" described behind her belly button after one of our rowdy sessions. She loves for me to put her legs on my shoulders raise up on my feet(bottoms) go real deep and grind the fuck outta her G Spot/bottom spot/backspot/midspot.
    She said its not extemely painful afterwords, but she knows something was deep in there for quite sometime afterwords. Sometimes next morning. I asked why she insists that I dust her off that way everytime shes ready to finish. As another above already said, she said "It feels sooo fuckin good I'll deal with it afterwords and its a reminder of how it got that" Shes not crazy about legs on shoulders, and long hard strokes hounding over and over again. She prefers that I go deep, hard and hold it there and just grind her way to niagra. I guess shes still getting clit pleasure too when pushed that hard.

    I do need to say, I got all porn star riled one night and fucked myself right outta the happy ending.
    I was hittin it doggy style, pulled out to the tip and halled off and plowed to the nuts one good time....
    She collapsed on her stomach in silence. She rolls over with tears in her eyes and at that point it was over...man.
    Nice work jackass:eek:
    So, this was added to contrast with sex pain=pleasure. It doesnt always "hurt so good" Just because the porn flick makes it look as though women want their guts to be jackhammered into their lungs, remember thats porn and most women would rather not have that. Hit bottom, push good, but dont try to knock a hole in it.

    So be careful when plowing the field.:tongue:
     
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    I suggested the ice cube idea a long time ago and she said no way. Too cold for her. Either she's too sensitive down there, or you're just hardcore. Or both. :biggrin1:
     
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    :wink::biggrin1:

    Well the sooner the bruising is dealt with the sooner I can get back on the horse. (of the human kind) So sucking it up and dealing with a little discomfort has it's rewards.
     
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    There's something very erotically appealing about a woman with such a rough approach to fucking.

    <<spacing>>

    Very appealing.

    <<spacing>>

    Jesus Christ, are you related to subgirrl by any chance?!?
     
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    I've done the same before, especially if it's been a couple/couple night or involved group sex or I've just had a LOT of sex.
     
  18. The Dragon

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    Well we are both beautiful, earthy Aussie girls.
    It must be all this sunlight and clean living.:wink::biggrin1:
     
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    Yeah, that must be it. You both seem to have the "it's only a fleshwound" kind of attitude.

    God, I'm good.
     
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    I thought the same thing. Could you imagine Sub and Dragon in a 3way.

    Damn, Ima have to nail onea dim Aussie chicks. Second thought, they might nail me.:biggrin1:
     
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