Do pussies actually stretch when being penetrated, or is this just a myth? And if so, any tips?
It is worth noting two points about women:
- some women really dislike the idea of a large penis, and may be frightened by one that is too long.
- some women are much more impressed by the thickness of a penis, rather than its length. This is because some females like the sense of feeling stretched round the entrance to the vagina so if a guy is quite broad at the base of his penis, this can feel very exciting and satisfying to such women.
Virtually every man forgets that it doesn't matter how long or how short your penis is, because the vagina will accommodate itself to any length.
- The vagina of a woman who hasn't had a child is only 7.5cm (3 inches) long when she's not sexually excited. The figures for women who have had babies are only slightly different.
- Even when aroused, a woman's vagina usually extends only to a length of about 10cm (4 inches).
This means any man's penis will fill her vagina completely, unless you happen to be one of those rare guys with an erect penile length of less than four inches.
You're probably now wondering how the average man with an erection of six inches manages to insert his penis into the vagina at all.
The vagina has the most remarkable capacity for lengthening if something is introduced into it gradually.
So the exceptional man whose erect penis is eight inches long can still make love to any woman, providing he excites her properly and introduces his penis very slowly. If he does this, her vagina will lengthen by 150 or 200 per cent to accommodate him.
So what what happens to her sex organs as she gets aroused? Laboratory studies carried out in Holland in 2004 show that as s soon as a woman starts thinking with interest about sex, her vagina begins to moisten. (This is the female equivalent of erection in men.)
The reason for this moistening is to lubricate her vagina, in preparation for possible sexual activity. At the same time, various other things happen:
- her clitoris the most erotically sensitive part of her body swells up.
- her labia (the lips of the opening of her vagina) also swell up. The effect of this is to open up her vaginal opening slightly, in preparation for intercourse.
- inside her, her vagina opens up making room for the possible entry of a penis.
So to summarise. Any woman can take any penis length provided her sexual partner has first sexually aroused her. Therefore, foreplay is essential to achieve enjoyable sex.
Hope this helps.