Large and In Charge sounds perilously close to being an abuser.
Frankly, young Men want what young women have to offer, and young men don't have all that much to bargain with... You haven't proven you can provide lavishly, you haven't proven you can commit, or be a good father... and as to being Fit and well hung? If you think that matters to anyone other than the other secret gays down at the gym, you are kidding yourself big time.
A minority of Women may want to fuck a guy with a big cock... but that is not the criteria they use in selecting who to be with in relationship.
Not until men are older and have some accomplishments to show do the tables turn and they end up with some power in negotiating a relationship... and hey... MOST men never achieve enough to seriously attract the attention of the most desirable women.
So here's the flip side to the brutal fact that young pretty women have power over men... only successful men really have any power over women...
The guy working the counter at the convenience store at midnight is gonna be damn lucky to get any woman in his life, and he KNOWs it, no matter how fit or hung he is.
But this is the way it is... young men want women more than young women want men. And this give women a power to manipulate that fact.
At 45, when a man's libido has cooled to a more manageable point... and if he has managed to make something of himself, he may be able to offer enough to a clever woman in terms of security and comfort that he can make the rules...
But other than that, young men must rely on being personable, funny, supportive and fun to be with to attract young women on the basis of their personalities and potential.
Or, they can play it large and in charge, but of course, the only women attracted by that behavior will be the less bright, and less emotionally stable.
