so we messaged me through grindr, even arranged for me to have a 3 sum with him and an 18 year old on our second experience. mentioned he had condoms and then failed to provide any when we arrived. i had all the screen shots of every conversation held of before and after the experiences. never once did he mention it, which is my main issue because he put many of us at risk with the full awareness of what he possess. regardless of it being detectable or not. and the zay situation was really uncalled for, i would never want my personal information to be out there to the public, but if it weren’t for that, i would have never been informed about this situation.