A friend of mine is 50, started a new life in the Philippines with a young 27 year old wife. Not saying that you have to do this..just saying that you are still too young to settle for this bulshit.
I am sorry..but i have never experienced any kind of crazy shit like this or heard from from South American women (like myself..only raised and live in Europe)...always these type of stories from white men.. I have many white girlfriends and almost all have stated some type of indifference sexually when they were in longterm relationships at some point. So I don't know if you are white..but it sure sounds like it to me.
Get yourself a lover if you don't feel like cutting up your life or possesions in half. just because you have many years behind in your marriage doesnt mean you need to accept this shit. Marriage with no sex..no intimacy whatsoever isn't a marriage at all. You are roommates now..straight and simple.
I feel for you..but you are not a victim here either. My guess is that you have been satisfying her needs constantly, and she has been taking you for granted. Constantly catering to her needs, can make a woman feel she has the one up on you. Especially when she clearly does not do the same in return.
Next..I hate to burst a bubble here. But no woman that truly enjoys having sex with her man, gives up on it that easily. Just not so. Guess she most likely has not been as honest with you as you might think. whether its hormonal or she has just lost interest in you (due to lack of respect or whatever)..doesnt matter. She looks like she doesnt want to do anything about that.
I respect that you just want to vent...well hope that helped. But i feel its sad when i see other's expecting so little from life and the people they share it with..
I am sorry..but i have never experienced any kind of crazy shit like this or heard from from South American women (like myself..only raised and live in Europe)...always these type of stories from white men.. I have many white girlfriends and almost all have stated some type of indifference sexually when they were in longterm relationships at some point. So I don't know if you are white..but it sure sounds like it to me.
Get yourself a lover if you don't feel like cutting up your life or possesions in half. just because you have many years behind in your marriage doesnt mean you need to accept this shit. Marriage with no sex..no intimacy whatsoever isn't a marriage at all. You are roommates now..straight and simple.
I feel for you..but you are not a victim here either. My guess is that you have been satisfying her needs constantly, and she has been taking you for granted. Constantly catering to her needs, can make a woman feel she has the one up on you. Especially when she clearly does not do the same in return.
Next..I hate to burst a bubble here. But no woman that truly enjoys having sex with her man, gives up on it that easily. Just not so. Guess she most likely has not been as honest with you as you might think. whether its hormonal or she has just lost interest in you (due to lack of respect or whatever)..doesnt matter. She looks like she doesnt want to do anything about that.
I respect that you just want to vent...well hope that helped. But i feel its sad when i see other's expecting so little from life and the people they share it with..