Putting it in

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a vagina and ass are two very different things - a vagina will respond to being turned on, an ass needs to be warmed up (depending on the guy) a little to a lot, so foreplay is required to loosen the guy up. don't believe porn where a virgin takes dick with just a bit of spit and it goes straight in!!

its easier for a bottom guy to relax if he's in control, hence easier if he sits on you and rides you, as he's in control and can manage how fast he takes your dick and how deep you go in and he can jump off real quick if too much too quickly. Bottoming takes a degree of trust and if there's no trust then he'll be tighter than.....

so you need to learn how to loosen his ass, play with it, or get him to play first (dildos or whatever he likes) to loosen up, a bit of lubed up fingering of his hole and gently pushing in as he relaxes.

but unless he's very experienced and you're not huge, the majority of bottoms cannot just take dick up there ass with no prep first.

if you're the top you need to ensure he's relaxed, ready, trusts you etc Being a top is hard work;-)

good luck bud
 

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I will give you the short version of how to get in. For a bottom with little anal experience they will need a slower version but I don't want to go into that now.

Firstly lube, lots of lube. If God made a mistake, it would be that he didn't make bum holes self lubricating like a vagina is. Think of how wet a pussy is and that's how much lube you need.

Then place the tip of your cock on his hole and press gently against it. While keeping constant contact with his hole increase the pressure slightly then back off again. Repeat this rhythm until gradually you will feel him relax and your cock will slide in a little. You may only get half an inch or more. Only go in as far as it slides in easily and stop moving immediately if you feel him clamp down but do not pull out.

Once the spasm stops repeat the process until you get all the way in. From here you start with small 1 inch thrusts and gradually build to full strokes. Be conscious of reapplying lube or spit as you go.

If you have an experienced bottom, this process should be quick as they will know how to relax to assist you.