So - as crazy as it sounds for those that have read my laments the past few nights - I've just put myself in an enforced celibacy for the upcoming 8 weeks. Had hoped I could get hold of one of my guys before today - but that didn't work out - so celibacy it is even though I'm still in the same state I was a couple of nights ago... Got home a few hours ago with a newly pierced tongue. The opportunity was just too good to pass up - long weekend, time off for recovery and no obligations at work where I need to speak until end of next week when I'm at a conference in Brussels. If not now - I would have had to wait for another similar opportunity - and they're not around that often for me. Yes, it hurts a bit and I speak a bit funny (not that I want to speak much - it's sore) - but not nearly as painful as other piercings I've done. Looking forward to when I'm finally able to use it (I suspect I can find a few willing candidates to test it on...) - but I have a slight suspicion you'll see a Valkyrie climbing the virtual walls on the forum before the 8 weeks are up. :biggrin1: Why celibacy you probably wonder - it's not a genital piercing after all? Well - it's as simple as that I'm not trusting myself enough to have sex without oral contact or at least kissing. Part and parcel of doing it for me.