Q about taking a large penis for the first time

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Firstly, I hate the analogy of giving birth and a vagina's stretchability. Utterly stupid.

Secondly, the poster who said a vagina can take on any length... another stupid post. There is a depth limit, period.

Thirdly, don't use just any lube, use lube you know will cooperate with your body chemistry. Took my wife and I a lot of trial and error, but ID Millenium is the best lube we've tried for regular sex. You may need to re-apply after 45 minutes. For hot tub sex, Wet Platinum is best. Again, use lube that mixes well with your chemistry. As far as cleanup after using silicone based lube, use Afterglow Tissues.

If any tearing occurs, your forchette will go first. Make sure there is an extra amount of lube in that area.

After sex, after cleanup, grab a cold wet face towel and use it as a cold compress until the soreness goes away. That'll deal with the surface rawness. We still have to find the perfect solution for the internal soreness.

Hope that helps.
 

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Yes, a baby's head does fit through a vagina, and I have the episiotomy scars to prove it! That's a stupid analogy.

I believe there is such a thing as too big, and it does hurt when he "bottoms out" as some call it. I just call it hurting. Hubby and I have an uneasy truce about this sometimes! I can tell when he's about ready to go all in and it calls for some action on my part to slow things down a bit.

As for thickness, well, the first time I guess I didn't notice or appreciated just how wide he was, but I guess if I were in a more rational state maybe I would have been concerned. But it's all good. Yes, there was a little not really discomfort, but I made sure to work things slowly until everything was good. It was as close to being a virgin again as I'll ever be. LOL!
 

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Hi,
New member here, I'm sure this question has come up before but I can't find anything exact.

I've started dating a guy who says he's 9" and thick (yes he could be bullshitting). We've talked and he says he'll take his time when we have sex. My question is as long as I'm aroused and wet he should fit right? I'm a little nervous that its going to hurt but I find the thought of being with a larger guy a turn on. My past boyfriends have remarked on me being tight - which was great for them and me but now I'm wondering if I'll be too tight for my new guy :frown1:

Any advice on how we can make sure things go well and I'm not reaching for the ice pack!

Thanks

Have you even seen his penis as of yet?
You might be worrying for nothing.
 
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Have him tie your arms to the bedposts.. Put some safety glasses and a helmet on you and you should be fine...lol