Q For Bottoms - Describe What You Feel When You Getting Fucked

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I'm really curious about it because it seems everyone feels it differently.

1. Describe what you feel while you are getting fucked?
2. Feeling Hurt / pleasure?
3. Any special moments during the sex - like the tip going in or pulling out?
4. Does your feeling change while the sex getting longer/faster?
5. Best position as a bottom to get the best orgasm from your partner?


Thanks :)
 

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I wouldn't say I am the best person to answer this but here is my personal experiences:

1.) It feels like I can feel their dick pushing in and out of my anus lol. I can feel the canal stretch and there is an ever so slight twinge of pain at the start.

2.) I for one, do no get much pleasure at all from it. Like there is barely a physical pleasurable feeling in it at all. The only place it feels pleasurable is the outside anus and a few inches in like the first 1 to 2 inches and even then not too much. I hear bottoming is much more psychological than anything. I do take a bit of pride that I am providing a great time for the top though.

It's also possible some men just don't have the right neurological make up to really feel pleasure from it(or at least doesn't feel as pleasurable as others who then dedicate themselves as a bottom)

3.) Yeah the best feeling for me is when they first insert and when the head is sliding out. Feels great but that would be too shallow for most tops to only stick in the head lol.

4.) If I have already cum, it feels much more uncomfortable honestly. I still try to take it well for the top but would rather he finish quickly lol

5.) I'll be honest, I've only ever done it laying down on my stomach and doggie style. Maybe I would enjoy it better in a different position but it's most comfortable the way I have been doing it.


Sorry if my responses aren't hot and sexy! I'm sure other men will come in and describe how it is the best feeling in the world with plenty of details and such lol
 

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1. Describe what you feel while you are getting fucked? There’s some pressure. And depends on if there’s enough lube or not will make a difference. I feel the sensation that I have to poop but I don’t actually poop lol. And just this very pleasurable feeling that just hits all the right spots.

2. Feeling Hurt / pleasure? My very first time it hurt a bit, mainly because I was inexperienced and didn’t know what I liked and didn’t like. After a lot of practice on my own with a dildo, I learned what worked for me and now it’s very pleasurable. There will be times where it might hurt because I didn’t use enough lube or maybe I’m extra tight because it’s been a while. But communication with your partner is very important.

3. Any special moments during the sex - like the tip going in or pulling out? Yes that will happen from time to time depending on how hard the top is going or if they’re not very lengthy. I prefer short and girthy over long and thin. Too long and I feel like I’m getting impaled and it’s not fun. And despite what the porn industry leads you to believe, but sometimes “shit” happens. Despite how much effort you put into being squeaky clean, you can’t always control that and it’s already embarrassing enough so I like to maintain a judgment free zone. Not sure what other special moments you’re looking for lol.

4. Does your feeling change while the sex getting longer/faster? Me personally, I’m a fast shooter. It doesn’t take me long to cum while being fucked, and typically after I’ve cum, I just want it to be over with lol. I tend to tense up after and so it doesn’t feel great. So I will purposely keep myself from cumming so that the top will keep going and cums before I do. I don’t know how some of these gays do these marathon fuck sessions. But I’m happy with keeping it short and sweet lol.

5. Best position as a bottom to get the best orgasm from your partner? The best position for me is being on my back and getting fucked missionary. It just feels the best. A close second is riding too. I feel more in control when I’m on top riding my man, and I say when he can cum. I’ve gotten off hands free a lot in that position too. I think my partner also enjoys being ridden too as he often requests that, but I think he enjoys standing over me and fucking me missionary style too. Doggy is ok, but feels kind of impersonal because you can’t see each other, can’t kiss, etc.

What else you got? Any other questions? Lol. I actually haven’t been bottoming long, just in the last 3 years since I started dating my current bf. I always topped in my previous relationships, and never thought I would ever bottom. But now I enjoy it very much. Hope that answers your questions!
 

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I've been bottoming for many years and can say that there is no one, uniform sensation; much depends on my mood and the skill of the top. The best feeling is when his penis hits my prostate just right and I scream in ecstasy. There is no better feeling on earth than being taken by your man and having that intense pleasure from prostate stimulation. This is the most special moment - at the first contact with the prostate. I know that I'm going to have a really good time then. However, if the top has a smaller penis that jabs at the prostate, I scream from pain; it is not a pleasant feeling whatsoever and I try to accommodate by switching positions, which works sometimes. I am very tight and, if I am not stretched out, the initial insertion is sometimes painful. I have him withdraw, wait about 30 seconds and reinsert. It always works. I like to start slowly, usually with some deep kissing and getting fingered. Then, the sex should build up until, at the apex, I just surrender to him and let him take his own pace. If the feeling is really good for me, I will thrust back as a signal that it's okay to pump harder. I want him to experience the best fuck he's ever had on his own terms. As far as positions, if he is big, I like to start by having him lie down and me mounting him. That way I can control the speed of insertion. After it's comfortable, I will do whatever position he wants, although I prefer being on all fours with my chest on the mattress or floor, ass up. This usually assures maximum penetration.

But, the best feeling is always being fucked by someone you care for and feel safe with. There is no substitute for the intimacy, although, sometimes, I just want to feel like a slut and experience someone whose name I don't know and will never see again. That can be physically, if not emotionally, satisfying.
 

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1. Describe what you feel while you are getting fucked?
Physically, it feels like your hole is getting stretched as well as multiple sphincters in there during intital penetration. Staying inside would feel like some pressure on your anal walls and you can contract your sphincter muscles to increase/feel that pressure more. Going in and out of your ass feels like a very aggressive message for your insides. Mentally, it feels like I’m being owned or dominated while also finding power in it. We’ve been taught that penetration makes the penetrated “weak”, but me taking so much pleasure from it feels empowering

2. Feeling Hurt / pleasure?
I’ve passed a point when I would feel hurt from getting ass fucked, often I can take a cock for hours without any lube (just spit)

3. Any special moments during the sex - like the tip going in or pulling out?
Initial penetration feels special and when a guy gets balls deep for the first time. I like the moments when a guy finds my prostate and just goes to town on it. I also love moments when a guy gets a little aggressive when he’s close to cum

4. Does your feeling change while the sex getting longer/faster?
It does get more pleasurable for me the longer I’m getting fucked. My hole pulsates a lot more and it’s more time that my prostate is getting hit. The faster a guy fucks me the more my hole opens up and contracts

5. Best position as a bottom to get the best orgasm from your partner?
It depends on the curvature of his cock, I generally like getting fucked from behind/above, so something like doggy or jockey works for me
 

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I'm more of a top, but I have bottomed and do so for my boyfriend when he wants to fuck me. I'll give it a shot...

1. Describe what you feel while you are getting fucked?

At first there is pressure and I need lube or a lot of spit. Getting rimmed for me feels amazing and I could probably get rimmed, jerk off and cum.


2. Feeling Hurt / pleasure?

It hurts me at first, and I need the top to go slowly and be patient. Once he's inside and waits a moment I start to feel more comfortable, and I'd say I allow him to go faster and harder - sometimes, I'll ask for it more. But apparently the facial expressions I make give off the impression I am in pain. But at first yes - PAIN, then it'll get pleasurable after a few minutes. If the guy that is inserting does not listen and rams it in, and won't slow down then I have pushed guys off me and told them I asked you to stop and you don't listen. (If you're going to top, I think all should bottom to see how it feels and they need to understand everyone is different - if one guy says pound me no lube, no mercy and they enjoy that. FINE. But if they say go slowly, or stop, or wait a minute - please respect that?)

3. Any special moments during the sex - like the tip going in or pulling out?

I like when he finishes and cums... it is just the fact that a guy just got off inside me and seeing him react, grabbing his ass and pulling him deeper feels good.

4. Does your feeling change while the sex getting longer/faster?

Faster isn't always better, switch it up if you're going to go for a long time. I can get fucked for a while. I know when I top, sometimes it'll take me 30 minutes or more to cum, and some guys hate it and want me to fuck and cum, and get out. It seems rare to find a guy that likes to get fucked for a long time. I love fucking, the feeling alone is to me better than cumming. Don't get me wrong, cumming feels GREAT, but it only last a short amount of time. Whereas, fucking I know that feels good and it can go on for a while. But as a bottom I myself, prefer it to be shorter time. I can go long but you need to communicate that to me. So I can clean out, and I can also prepare mentally.

5. Best position as a bottom to get the best orgasm from your partner?

Personally I love my legs on the guys shoulders, so missionary? Because kissing really helps me cum quicker than anything else. It's the intimacy for me that really does it!!!
 

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1. Describe what you feel while you are getting fucked?
Penetration always feels a bit like taking a shit in reverse - which probably sounds strange and gross to anybody who isn’t used to it but it’s an incredible feeling. I usually feel a bit of discomfort when he first pushes through my asshole (unless he’s spent enough time loosening me up first, which lost guys don’t) so I usually ask him to either stay still with just his head inside while I adjust or ask him to pull out and push in a few times to loosen me up. Once my asshole has adjusted the rest of the penetration is a feeling of fullness and warmth which keeps growing until he’s all the way in. If he’s long enough to rush my sigmoid colon that’s another period of pushing in/out and adjustment, but that feels even more amazing once you’re used to how it feels, especially if he’s long enough to fuck you without his dick leaving your colon.

2. Feeling Hurt / pleasure?
As I said it almost always feels uncomfortable at the very beginning unless I’ve been having a lot of regular sex, but that doesn’t last long and the rest of the fuck is only pleasure.

3. Any special moments during the sex - like the tip going in or pulling out?
When his dick first reaches your sigmoid colon that’s a great moment. I haven’t been with many guys who can go that far so it’s always a bit more special. It involves a higher degree of trust and communication because it can really hurt if the top is too rough or doesn’t know how to work with that part of your body, but the guys who know how to get through there and make it feel good for both of you are always amazing fucks.

4. Does your feeling change while the sex getting longer/faster?
If it’s a long fuck sometimes I tend to start feeling uncomfortable towards the end, or sometimes it feels like the friction has gone completely and the stroking starts to feel a little less enjoyable - it’s hard to explain. But lucky me I guess, most of the time I have sex we both manage to cum roughly at the same time together.

5. Best position as a bottom to get the best orgasm from your partner?
I’ve always preferred laying on my side or stomach so he can press/hold himself right up against me for maximum body contact, and I like hearing a guy breathe and moan against my neck or next to my ear. But missionary so we can kiss is nice too.