In my sexual career, which didn't start in a reciprocal sense until I was 28, I've had two wild, very sex-centric and months-long affairs with women (younger in both cases), three experiences being a bottom (shortly after coming out) for a guy, and decades of being a top for guys. From my side, the physical experience of penetration is more intense and the feeling of appreciation greatest with guys. And I understand the intensity of the prostate stimulation for them - my second time bottoming, it was intense enough to give me a hands-free orgasm. And guys are usually more vocal about how much they like my thick cock - which makes me even harder! The women clearly liked it, but my only feedback was either a moan or two or, if she was riding cowgirl style, her pelvic motions. I don't know what it's like to court and beg to fuck a woman - both mine came after me (the first, my first female experience ever, had no idea I was gay. In the afterglow of nearly an hour of fucking, I explained that I liked men - she was fascinated, wanting to know what kind of guys I was attracted to, what we did to each other, etc. After a few months of seeing her almost daily, she invited over a guy I worked with and she knew. He was dumbfounded but joined us. Not only did she enjoy both of us, but he and I ended up 69-ing and seemed to be even better friends after that.
But I digress! To get back to the original question, fucking a man, especially if he knows how to relax and tighten at just the right times is much more intense at orgasm than any of my female experiences. And I'd actually prefer experience to youth, all else being equal - I have a great FWB that essentially edges me, controlling when I have my orgasm - almost always just as he does. It makes for some insanely high intensity!