Quality vs. Quantity of Sex

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what would you prefer, ok/alright sex with your partner everyday or great sex with your partner but only once per week?
 
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Quality for me.

I've been really promiscuous for the last 4 years and the sex has ranged from awful to ok. Never great.

I've had my fun; I've pursued my fantasies and done the whole nsa hook ups via craigslist thing. Now that I know that the experiences are always empty and disappointing I'm looking for quality.

Is it not possible to have lots of quality sex? That's what I'm searching for
 

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Not sure how to answer this... Quantity. My worst orgasm ever was still pretty amazing.

Luckily, I get both.
 

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Find a monogamous relationship, that's where the magic happens.

That's what I'm waiting for ... I'm not actively looking and joining every dating site I can find; I'm simply taking a step back and focusing on myself for a while. The right person will come along.

Not sure how to answer this... Quantity. My worst orgasm ever was still pretty amazing.

Luckily, I get both.

If I orgasmed every time I have had sex my answer might also be quantity. If you ask most women though, they'll tell you that they've had plenty of sex with no orgasm and/or with lots of fake ones.

I used to fake when I didn't have the confidence to speak up and guide my partner; I haven't faked in a long time.
 

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Quality for me.

I've been really promiscuous for the last 4 years and the sex has ranged from awful to ok. Never great.

I've had my fun; I've pursued my fantasies and done the whole nsa hook ups via craigslist thing. Now that I know that the experiences are always empty and disappointing I'm looking for quality.

Is it not possible to have lots of quality sex? That's what I'm searching for

in my opinion (and experience): if i find quality in a partner, then quantity is likely to follow; not gonna be much quantity if its dull. being comfortable and inviting to communicate can help determine compatibility and is ideal to "fine-tuning" the art and opens to exploration into other thrills, but true connection/chemistry is determined and occurs just naturally from the moment inhibitions are lowered.

cl nsa: damn haha, that was certainly an interesting and entertaining experience; met an interesting mix there over the years. one girl i met on there stands out. we had a natural electricity between each other-- was amazing--no words had to be said, we just liked what each other did and how we did it, each others' attitude as we did it... plenty of quality and quantity.
 

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That's no choice at all. Having a lot of boring sex is like having a lot of shitty food. And I don't eat at Denny's.

Quality, man. Quality.
 

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in my opinion (and experience): if i find quality in a partner, then quantity is likely to follow; not gonna be much quantity if its dull. being comfortable and inviting to communicate can help determine compatibility and is ideal to "fine-tuning" the art and opens to exploration into other thrills, but true connection/chemistry is determined and occurs just naturally from the moment inhibitions are lowered

This is what I'm hoping to find. I don't think I'll find a compatible partner by looking for them; and by looking I'm talking about speed dating, dating sites, craigslist etc. Maybe I'm wrong, but I'd rather come across my perfect lover and meet through fate (or whatever you want to call it).

cl nsa: damn haha, that was certainly an interesting and entertaining experience; met an interesting mix there over the years. one girl i met on there stands out. we had a natural electricity between each other-- was amazing--no words had to be said, we just liked what each other did and how we did it, each others' attitude as we did it... plenty of quality and quantity.

All the men I've met have had their pros and cons. They all have a price of admission; such as the guy who is great at anal and going down on my but he really likes choking and I don't. Or the guy who is obsessed with squirting. I squirt but it's not something I do as a party trick on demand.

I'm on hiatus for now
 

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This is what I'm hoping to find. I don't think I'll find a compatible partner by looking for them; and by looking I'm talking about speed dating, dating sites, craigslist etc. Maybe I'm wrong, but I'd rather come across my perfect lover and meet through fate (or whatever you want to call it).

All the men I've met have had their pros and cons. They all have a price of admission; such as the guy who is great at anal and going down on my but he really likes choking and I don't. Or the guy who is obsessed with squirting. I squirt but it's not something I do as a party trick on demand.
I'm on hiatus for now

all my most intimate relationships (of sexual origin or not) just happened--unexpected--without trying for or hunting for it, just by chillin and being myself.
 

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Quality. When my partners tell me that after a session they were good for a few days then that means that I did my job. If they went home and went online looking for s'more then that means that I had more fucking to do. Although part of it my be that I don't do quickies. At least not with men. All of that prep work for 30min or less? This ain't Dominoes. Long quality sessions that put both parties to sleep is what I'm about.
 

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The cool thing about being in a steady relationship is that sometimes it's just a quicky for one or the other, and we're just scratching an itch. Other times, it's long and intimate and amazing, and I cum so hard I have to ask for my prostate back.