Hello all,
I am all about a gay guy being their authentic self but sometimes I feel like people are following a stereotype already set instead of actually being themselves. Recently I have meet group of "queenie" (think Jack from will and grace) guys and I was completely turned off and found them obnoxious. I hate that I feel that way, they just annoyed the living hell out of me and I kept thinking who actually real behaves this way. Again I hate that I feel that way towards over the top "Queenie" types because I want to like all within our community. How do you guys feel about those over the top "Queenie" Jack from Will and Grace types?
I would also like to add that I myself am not hyper masculine nor super feminine. I feel that I am a mixture of both but more leaning towards masculine. Adding this because I don't want anyone to think I am hating on them for being feminine because I have some of those traits as well.
I am all about a gay guy being their authentic self but sometimes I feel like people are following a stereotype already set instead of actually being themselves. Recently I have meet group of "queenie" (think Jack from will and grace) guys and I was completely turned off and found them obnoxious. I hate that I feel that way, they just annoyed the living hell out of me and I kept thinking who actually real behaves this way. Again I hate that I feel that way towards over the top "Queenie" types because I want to like all within our community. How do you guys feel about those over the top "Queenie" Jack from Will and Grace types?
I would also like to add that I myself am not hyper masculine nor super feminine. I feel that I am a mixture of both but more leaning towards masculine. Adding this because I don't want anyone to think I am hating on them for being feminine because I have some of those traits as well.