Hey everyone... I'm curious about anal sex with women. Ideally, I would really like to hear from the women of these forums on their views toward it and, if they were to guess, what the general consensus would be. That's not to say I wouldn't appreciate any knowledgeable or helpful input. My assumption is that most women don't or wouldn't like anal, but I'm interested to see if there's any weight behind that. I also have a lot of questions that probably anyone knowledgeable on the subject could answer. I've had a growing interest in trying anal sex, but I've been met with a lot of reluctance. I'm not trying to discredit that in any way; I fully respect a girl's prerogative to choose what goes into her body. But I'm still curious. I'm in a long-term relationship currently, but my girlfriend isn't interested in trying it. We've talked about it a few times-- not me trying to "convince" her; just exploring the subject and our feelings on it. I'm not into making or convincing girls to do things they don't want to do, so it's nothing like that. I did get the opportunity to try it once, but I didn't really get to "experience" it. It was a threesome with another girl, and my first threesome--so yeah, I was a little nervous about performing at first--and we also had to worry about a sleeping roommate in the next room. Finally, I was a little afraid to enjoy anything too much, for fear of my girlfriend taking it the wrong way or whatever. So I find myself wondering about it. My girlfriend recently suggested that I find a girl who's into it and "satisfy my curiosity." I'm not sure how I feel about it; of course we talked about it for awhile, and we'll certainly talk some more about it. But I'm just wondering... what kind of adventure am I considering partaking? Is anal a pretty common thing? Do I have about the same chance of getting a girl to let me try as ... finding someone with a 12" cock? Is it something a lot of girls would let happen on a casual basis, or is that something a lot of girls would prefer to reserve for a more intimate relationship? I have pics in my gallery (and this isn't a covert plea to get views on my gallery) -- is my size going to cause difficulty, either in finding a girl to accept me or actually fitting it in (honestly..)? I'm a little paranoid, and admittedly naive regarding anal sex, and I don't really know how my size factors into the act. Assuming I find someone who's willing to let me try it with her, is there anything either I or her need to do to prepare (aside from obviously letting her get warmed up and taking plenty of time to let her stretch)? I've tried reading a lot of professional stuff online, and it's all extremely conservative.. I can't help but believe that there are people out there who safely enjoy anal, without wearing 3.5 condoms and don't touch a pussy for 38.2 days after committing to anal sex. What if one of my friends decides to try it out with me and we can be sure we're clean-- is there a "safe" (enough, practically) way to do it without a condom? If I don't use a condom, what about cumming? Can I cum in a girl's ass, or is that not quite the same as a pussy? Girls, ... is it different? I know it's a lot of questions. It's just something I'm curious about, and I don't want to come off like a virgin in the moment... and I also don't want to be a douche unknowingly, and do something bad unintentionally. Thanks in advance for your time and comments.