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Recently there has been a change in my ejaculations. About two weeks ago, when I came, I noticed a very large amount of clear and thinner (pre-cum perhaps) semen shoot out. It didn't just dribble out, it shot out and made a huge mess. It felt very intense, but I felt it was not quite done yet, so I continued stroking, and the thicker white cum blasted like a fountain seconds later, which was even more intense.

Does anyone have any ideas what may be going on here?
 

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If you haven't cum for a period longer than usual or you edged for a longer period than usual, you may have built up a larger volume of fluid from your bulbourethral glands and prostate that was ejaculated first before the whiter thicker fluid from your seminal vesicles came through.
 

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Recently there has been a change in my ejaculations. About two weeks ago, when I came, I noticed a very large amount of clear and thinner (pre-cum perhaps) semen shoot out. It didn't just dribble out, it shot out and made a huge mess. It felt very intense, but I felt it was not quite done yet, so I continued stroking, and the thicker white cum blasted like a fountain seconds later, which was even more intense.

Does anyone have any ideas what may be going on here?

What is your age and do you have anal sex more frequently than before?

It sounds like one of two things. One, you have started edging seriously without really knowing what the results might be and your perineum is stronger because of bating or anal sex therefore when you orgasm you clench which throttles the vas deferens at the exit from the testicles, the sperm is held while the seminal fluid which is the domain of the prostate is already shooting out and the viscosity is less and mass is less so it squirts far. Because your kegel is not conscious the body says "woah" that sperm needs to0 go out so it starts up your orgasm immediately after the seminal fluid and that bumps your brain and makes for a two stage cum shot. I once did this for 7 plateaus (the more you do the longer the orgasm) with the last being about 25 minutes long. i made animal dying noises and it was as excruciating in pleasure as it was pleasure. My penis just erupted fluid which didn't squirt it just ran out in a steady sheet as the kegels were keeping all of it in. The system just failed and about half a cup of liquid came out. So yes, the bate is a freakshow a bit when taken this far.

The other possibility is prostatitis. The system will not work right with an inflamed prostate. If the condition persists and you urinate more frequently or have trouble go see a doctor. The condition is a sign of potentially worse down the road but in its early stages is the easiest thing to fix.

There may be mechanical reasons things have changed downtown and that is affecting the system. If you take any number of prescription or recreational drugs this is a potential side effect. Other than that, I would say follow the path you are on, most men never learn the two stage orgasm and the rest is just repetition so growth is possible to great success. You seem to have been given the first key to a higher plane of sexual development for males.
 
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NudistPig - I'm 48, and never really been into edging. In fact, I'm always in a rush to cum when masturbating...haha. I don't take drugs of any kind and while I haven't bottomed in about a year, I do use my toys somewhat regularly. (a couple of times a week or every other week) And yes, a ''two-stage" orgasm is the perfect description for what this was. I didn't experience any pain whatsoever, but a whole lot of surprise at just how intense it was and how big a mess it left behind.

Thanks for the response. I appreciate it.
 

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You may have created a kind of prostatitis with a dildo. You basically hit it too hard and bruise it. That swells it and it pinches the vas deferens. Yes, this injury I had myself once or twice or never you mind. I work peripherally in sexual health so the questions about causes doctors often ignore is to give the person a cue without making a claim. If the issue persists or returns worse see a doctor. The bruised prostate responded by making fluid to care for the damaged tissue and it was backed up and that system backed up the rest. Also, the pressure built up before the release greater because of the constriction.

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Recently there has been a change in my ejaculations. About two weeks ago, when I came, I noticed a very large amount of clear and thinner (pre-cum perhaps) semen shoot out. It didn't just dribble out, it shot out and made a huge mess. It felt very intense, but I felt it was not quite done yet, so I continued stroking, and the thicker white cum blasted like a fountain seconds later, which was even more intense.

Does anyone have any ideas what may be going on here?
When I got prostatitis my orgasms were out of synch like that and intense but quite painful too. Lasted for many months and was unpleasant. If you get any discomfort, burning, aching or other symptoms with it, I'd get it checked out.
 
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You may have created a kind of prostatitis with a dildo. You basically hit it too hard and bruise it.

Ah ha. This certainly seems plausible. I do tend to get a bit rough with myself using the toys. There are times when I'm sore for a day or two afterward, but never more than that. I'm not experiencing any pain currently, either, yet I had the "two-stage" orgasm last night, as well. But there was no pain involved with that, either.

Thanks again.
 

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The most of it is in your sphinc. There are no nerves in the lining of the rectum. Usually you trash the hoop and that throbs and twitches. The prostate is not in the rectum but adjacent and a direct blow to the colon wall will bruise it. The bruising takes a few days to recede if I recall correctly. The two stage cum shots should get weaker. You won't feel pain in your prostate from that injury per se. I didn't consider sounding tho.