So I am talking to this girl of interest and have been for some time, since about august. At times she seems interested in me and at others not so much, I am trying to figure out if she is playing hard to get or possibly just confused herself, seeing she is just getting out of a year or so relationship. When we met she still had the boyfriend but had not spoken to him in 2 weeks and did not care for him any longer. After nights of drinking she would come home with me since she lived 45+ minutes away. she always slept on the pull out couch, me in my bed. I did tell her one time how i felt but i was also intoxicated at that time. We did one time fall asleep together on the pullout couch as I held her, she woke up around 4 am and then woke me, we both agreed that i should go back to my bed. Although she was still not talking to the b/f we both felt it was best. The next day is when she finally broke up with him after 2 mths of talking about it. since then we have remained friends talking a few times a week and still going out. She has called me to go out to bars after work before, but has not since I had to decline her twice (for good reason). She calls me for funny stuff that is happening..hitting a raccoon, being trapped in the car by an oppossum and when she smacked herself in the head with a gun scope after firing the rifle and needing stitches. but when i try to ask her out to dinner whether over text or IM there is never really an answer. We have gone out on what i would call dates, special zoo functions, concerts..etc. Am I doing something wrong? Should i back off and see what happens? Just try to be friends for now? Be more forward? Any advise would be great..Thanks All.