question about anal sex

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  1. OPPinSLC

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    My girlfriend wants me to have anal sex with her. She has done it before with previous boyfriends, but (no pun intended) it would be a first for me. I realize that this is nothing new under the sun, but I'm wondering if I should wear a condom to keep from getting a bladder infection. Sorry if this has been covered before.
     
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    Yes you should wear a condom if you plan to change lanes:biggrin1:
     
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    Change lanes, I like that. Is that also called the "Big Boy combo"?
     
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    Not sure about the big boy combo??

    But if you switch between front and back passage then your partner could get a nasty infection.

    Also remember to indicate before changing lanes, it's only polite...happy motoring:smile:
     
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    if she's your gf you can do it without condom.
    you could start with a vaginal intercourse and then go to the anus.
    NEVER viceversa
     
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    I'm also concerned about me getting a bladder infection. Is this justified, or silly?
     
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    no not silly at all..and yes you can get a baldder infection
     
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    All toys and that include real willies should be used with a condom with the exception of electric butt plugs (they don't work inside a condom due to rubber being an insulator) it reduces the chances of infection and make them easier to clean.

    If you want to do bare back then an enema or douching will need to be done
     
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    Thanks for your comments. I'm off the drugstore;) lol
     
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    lucky guy....my wifes "rear access" has a DO NOT ENTER sign above it !!

    Keep us all I mind while you drive throught the Hershey Highway
     
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    As a man, you have almost zero chance to catch a UTI (urinary tract infection) from anal sex (unless you have some rare anatomical abnormalities). There are a few reasons for this:
    * You have a long urethra, so the poor E. coli bacteria will have a tough time making it to your bladder before they get flushed out.
    * You have a prostate, which secretes antibacterial materials.

    Your GF, on the other hand, has a short urethra and no prostate. She is at a much higher risk of UTI. So if you "change lanes," replace the condom for her sake. Or, you'll buy yourself a few days of no sex and a trip to the pharmacy to pick up Bactrim or Cipro.

    So feel free to bareback... if that's your thing. Just get her a Fleet's enema bottle, but toss away the included laxative solution. Several cycles of plain tap water (until it runs clear) will make the experience much cleaner.
     
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    lmao hershey highway,lmao
     
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    It feels better without a condom, go slow and use a lot of lube and afterwards be sure to shower and piss after you have anal sex and you won't have any troubles.
     
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    I just posted an anal video,If your gf has done it before she'll know which procedures work best for her to get her ready. Every woman is different. She probably has some sort of anal toy you can use to get her loosened up a bit. Use that with a good amount of lube. Enema's are good but if you use one make sure you use it correctly and she has enough time to evacuate her anal cavity completly or you'll end up with a brown soupy discharge during sex that isnt very pleasant. Condoms have their pro's and con's but for your first time you may want to use a condom just incase your worried about getting any remaining shit on your dick.Take it slow, if she's tight go as slow as you can then go half as fast as that... Here's a few anal clips for you to watch,keep in mind that I took the time beforehand to get the girls nice a ready for a buttfucking before I slipped my dick up thier ass. Enjoy!

    http://www.windycityxxx.com/iso32/deepsexyanal.wmv

    http://www.windycityxxx.com/iso32/uptheass.wmv

    http://www.windycityxxx.com/iso32/sexyanal.wmv
     
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    all guys who do anal bareback should make yourself pee after sex to rinse out any impurities that might have entered into your urethra. this is so you don't get a yeast infection or any other little bug
     
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    If you want this to go well, I strongly recommend silicon lube. It's condom compatible (oil based products aren't) and never dries out and is incredibly slick.

    Key advice: go slow. Think of your cock as an insturument you're using to pleasure her insides, rather than her ass as a place to hammer your cock into. Total shift of perspective, yes. But it'll go a long way toward a good experience.
     
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    Already lots of good advice. Just take it slow, and since she's done it before, let her take the lead and guide you how she likes it. Might take a few times to get fully used to it, but once you're comfortable with it, you might find it amazing!
     
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    That's not true, it's quite easy to get a bladder infection from anal sex, ESPECIALLY for men. Women could only get a bladder infection from anal if you switched from anal sex to vaginal sex without cleaning up / change of condoms.

    And remember if doing anal sex unprotected to go to the toilet asap after to help remove bacteria in the penis!
     
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