Question about anal sex

[DeanoLondonUK]

My question is, why do guys freak out so much when guys wanna do anal when you might not be clean?

I dunno about anyone else but I must have bowel problems , coz I took a number 2 earlier and it took me a while to clean up. I think that I have regular bowel movements. Luckily I was at home so I wiped plenty. But what if you are out and u have a hookup and you are not prepaired? Why do guys freak out of there is some number 2? I got an anal douche and the instructions said it may take an hour to be fully clean. I once had a hookup in a club and when he wanted to fuck me , I said no coz I was not prepaired. Anyways he would not take no for an answer. So he is sticking his dick on my hole and some number 2 was there. So he immediately got annoyed with me and even booked me a taxi for me to leave. I did warn him what the fuck am I supposed to do? Someone enlighten me.

 

[BulgeGuySD]

My question is, why do guys freak out so much when guys wanna do anal when you might not be clean?

I dunno about anyone else but I must have bowel problems , coz I took a number 2 earlier and it took me a while to clean up. I think that I have regular bowel movements. Luckily I was at home so I wiped plenty. But what if you are out and u have a hookup and you are not prepaired? Why do guys freak out of there is some number 2? I got an anal douche and the instructions said it may take an hour to be fully clean. I once had a hookup in a club and when he wanted to fuck me , I said no coz I was not prepaired. Anyways he would not take no for an answer. So he is sticking his dick on my hole and some number 2 was there. So he immediately got annoyed with me and even booked me a taxi for me to leave. I did warn him what the fuck am I supposed to do? Someone enlighten me.

I hoy a tip for you, it works for me, after my bowel movements one in the morning and one afternoon. if I know I’m going out after work per said, I take anti-diarrhea medicine I use lomatil before diner, so your poo is very solid, and I always carry water base lube and condoms it had never let me down even with the biggest cocks … and I try to plan hook ups..

 

[BulgeGuySD]

I hoy a tip for you, it works for me, after my bowel movements one in the morning and one afternoon. if I know I’m going out after work per said, I take anti-diarrhea medicine I use lomatil before diner, so your poo is very solid, and I always carry water base lube and condoms it had never let me down even with the biggest cocks … and I try to plan hook ups..

meant: “ I have a tip”

 

[Fofu]

My question is, why do guys freak out so much when guys wanna do anal when you might not be clean?

I dunno about anyone else but I must have bowel problems , coz I took a number 2 earlier and it took me a while to clean up. I think that I have regular bowel movements. Luckily I was at home so I wiped plenty. But what if you are out and u have a hookup and you are not prepaired? Why do guys freak out of there is some number 2? I got an anal douche and the instructions said it may take an hour to be fully clean. I once had a hookup in a club and when he wanted to fuck me , I said no coz I was not prepaired. Anyways he would not take no for an answer. So he is sticking his dick on my hole and some number 2 was there. So he immediately got annoyed with me and even booked me a taxi for me to leave. I did warn him what the fuck am I supposed to do? Someone enlighten me.

I guess he could have let u use his bathroom as u got there... or when the number 2 showed up, you could have taken it to the shower... that said - The smell can put a damper on even the hottest hookup - but as a top I know that it is a risk - a risk I am willing to take
Another tip with these unprepared hookups... just keep the D inside untill you finish, and then shower up... it's the changing of position and the dick all the way out that can cause probs... that is unless you have a really large dump waiting in line... then nothing helps.. lol
Last tip - fibers are friends of the bottoms - eat lots of fibers...

 

[BulgeGuySD]

I guess he could have let u use his bathroom as u got there... or when the number 2 showed up, you could have taken it to the shower... that said - The smell can put a damper on even the hottest hookup - but as a top I know that it is a risk - a risk I am willing to take
Another tip with these unprepared hookups... just keep the D inside untill you finish, and then shower up... it's the changing of position and the dick all the way out that can cause probs... that is unless you have a really large dump waiting in line... then nothing helps.. lol
Last tip - fibers are friends of the bottoms - eat lots of fibers...

the key is to keep the solid not muddy, and try to empty your track, and for the unexpected hock ups, keep with you an anti-diarrhea meds. the best for me is lomotil the very small and work fast.. oh and a lot of lube !!

 

[bravesoldier]

My question is, why do guys freak out so much when guys wanna do anal when you might not be clean?

I dunno about anyone else but I must have bowel problems , coz I took a number 2 earlier and it took me a while to clean up. I think that I have regular bowel movements. Luckily I was at home so I wiped plenty. But what if you are out and u have a hookup and you are not prepaired? Why do guys freak out of there is some number 2? I got an anal douche and the instructions said it may take an hour to be fully clean. I once had a hookup in a club and when he wanted to fuck me , I said no coz I was not prepaired. Anyways he would not take no for an answer. So he is sticking his dick on my hole and some number 2 was there. So he immediately got annoyed with me and even booked me a taxi for me to leave. I did warn him what the fuck am I supposed to do? Someone enlighten me.

The guy who got annoyed with you sounds like a total a-hole and that's putting it lightly. Him freaking out as you said is nothing more than his own fault and is wrong. I have rules with anal, and since an incident where my former BF insisted that I fuck him one day not douched, I WON'T turn back from my rules. I don't have to tell you what happened upon his insistence, and I'm here to tell you it will not happen again when a fella can be prepared and clean. When I first entered the gay sex scene 15-18 years ago it took me a while to get used to the thought of getting fucked in my butthole or fucking another guy up his. In my case, being around it for a while and slowly learning to enjoy anal, I began to see the anus as a fuck hole and not a sh** hole. It just takes a while to let it sink in. When that thing is clean it truly does become an object of desire and the entire outlook from the first thoughts can definitely change. I have never wanted to lick too many guys holes, but that is changing too. I guess it is easier to think of it was as what the butthole truly BECOMES and not what it actually is. That's the thing, what it becomes.

Now I can't get enough anal. My hole has become conditioned, and I can take it quite well and that includes big (and I mean thick) cock. I never would have dreamed anal would feel so good. To me it is the big stretch that is addicting. Being filled, stretched and knowing your partner is taking pleasure from you is mind blowing.

 

[Andrej_u]

I don't know how some bottoms do it.
Last time I went to Paris, I flirted with a gorgeous Russian guy and ended up at his place.
I fucked him good. It was after a night at the club, and... He was so clean inside, that he even went ass-to-mouth on my dick. Again, after a night at the club. I was amazed.

Now, when I fucked him, I knew it was something unplanned. I knew I could have gotten my dick a bit dirty. I was surprised and turned on when I saw it was clean, but I was ready to fuck him even with the risk of it being dirty. At this point I wonder if he douched his ass before going to the club, in order to be ready for possible sex. That's real dedication!

And again, if I insist on fucking a guy who tells me he hasn't prepared, I know what I'm going towards. In those cases you want to put your dick inside and never pull out until the end. As long as it's inside, it's Schroedinger's dick: it's both dirty and clean at the same time, and you want to keep it that way .

 

[halcyondays]

For the same reason you probably wouldn't stick your dick into a pile of shit?

STIs aside I always wear a condom when topping a guy. Even if he is clean there's often a little shit left behind. Even when cleaned out there's always enteric bacteria there I want to avoid.

Yeah, your guy should not have freaked out when you warned him you were not empty or hadn't cleaned out. He should have stopped when you said no. That's on him.

It takes time to clean out. A decent top will allow you that time.

 

[Fofu]

"it's Schroedinger's dick" that made my day

 

[chrisrobin]

Back in the day a little bit of brown of a cock after a decent fuck was par for the course. Then there wasn't time to do all the preps some people nowadays think is needed, you went to a bar, picked up a guy and went back to his or yours and fucked - then you washed!

 

[BulgeGuySD]

For the same reason you probably wouldn't stick your dick into a pile of shit?

STIs aside I always wear a condom when topping a guy. Even if he is clean there's often a little shit left behind. Even when cleaned out there's always enteric bacteria there I want to avoid.

Yeah, your guy should not have freaked out when you warned him you were not empty or hadn't cleaned out. He should have stopped when you said no. That's on him.

It takes time to clean out. A decent top will allow you that time.

100% agreed !

 

[Almost40]

A dominant alpha, is aware what comes along - sometimes. If you stick your schlong in weird places, you should be ready to encounter... stuff. If you want to stay away from "trouble" , simply don't do it. So either be a man and work it out or, bitch go home.

 

[BulgeGuySD]

A dominant alpha, is aware what comes along - sometimes. If you stick your schlong in weird places, you should be ready to encounter... stuff. If you want to stay away from "trouble" , simply don't do it. So either be a man and work it out or, bitch go home.

is all about communication and planing (for me) I had gotten propositions to be fucked in the ass, but I always tell the top if my pipes are in the goid hygiene condition or not, if he doesn’t care the let’s do it, or if he really wants it he can wait and we plane it accordingly, if not then oh well….! more was lost in the war .. I do my best to manage my self.. it can be done.

 

[Trevor]

that is unless you have a really large dump waiting in line... then nothing helps.. lol

I had that happen once, I thought I was good to go but when he was about to finish I suddenly realized I wasn't. When he pulled out it came out. lol

 

[BulgeGuySD]

I had that happen once, I thought I was good to go but when he was about to finish I suddenly realized I wasn't. When he pulled out it came out. lol

ishhh

 

[BulgeGuySD]

I had that happen once, I thought I was good to go but when he was about to finish I suddenly realized I wasn't. When he pulled out it came out. lol

meaning I know what is like same here ..it happened me too

 

[Fofu]

I had that happen once, I thought I was good to go but when he was about to finish I suddenly realized I wasn't. When he pulled out it came out. lol

been on the recieving end of that... not very nice... I freaked and became very selfish - pushed him off me (he was riding) ran to the bathroom and started showering behind locked door, so he stood outside with his own mess, yelling for me to open the door so he could shower too... I was young... today I would have reacted more calmly I think....

 

[wvgwm52]

my rule for anall sex is this--i was a total bottom myself for yours---never heard of douching or prepping--and i have never gotten shit on a mans dick---

its an asshole--it tends to happen---i know a guy that did the prepping and all---when the guy fucked him the guy went deeper than most dicks he been fucked by--and he got shit on the guys dick---the guy pulls out see it on his dick and he grabs a few tissues on a box on nightstand--wiped it off and tossed it in trash can next to the bed--my buddy went did number two cleaned up--the guy yelled at him what was taking his time---he said he was prepping again and the guy says its just shit---get your ass in here--- so we can finish

its jus shit as he says--i am as i said more bottom than top--been fucked by so many guys i couldnt say how many--all bareback-- and i have never caught any sti's or std's


i think over time rimming a guys ass gets me used to the natural taste of things--- ive not rimmed a hole that was so shitty that i cleaned it up as i worked my way in-- i grab few tissues and clean it up--theyd say they are sorry about that--i be like its ok--

so guys that freak out over it--get over it--it happens--even in porn it happens----- only thing is--its edited out and we dont see it--but google porn bloopers and you will see clips --straight and gay of things that happen---so we cant edit out of our lives--but we can man up clean up and finish