Here is what I think.
I don't know if there is an age or significant experience difference between you guys, but I think he just wants you to get experienced first before you make a decision about settling down.
I've been in a position where I was pseodo-dating someone and I was extremely concerned that I was plucking an apple off the tree too soon.
Regarding bars, i'm a fellow introvert and generally dislike bars myself. Some people enjoy it, but the music and the noise and the sexual implications are a bit much for me.
I'd say that unless you have a friend who is seriously about looking out for you if you decided to get drunk, you need to hold off on the bar hopping.
I don't know if there is an age or significant experience difference between you guys, but I think he just wants you to get experienced first before you make a decision about settling down.
I've been in a position where I was pseodo-dating someone and I was extremely concerned that I was plucking an apple off the tree too soon.
Regarding bars, i'm a fellow introvert and generally dislike bars myself. Some people enjoy it, but the music and the noise and the sexual implications are a bit much for me.
I'd say that unless you have a friend who is seriously about looking out for you if you decided to get drunk, you need to hold off on the bar hopping.