sares said:
as for me personally, i think there is a bit of a rash of girls who are "bisexual" just to be cool
Know what you mean. Like when you go to parties and two stereotypical "wild girls" are trying to put on a meaningless cocktease for everyone around them not because they are actually lesbian or free spirited but because they are, indeed, attention whores. Makes me think they should sort out their issues elsewhere before they do something degrading to themselves and make others look worse in the process.
Anyways, truthfully I'm pretty much 100% straight. I'd never consider having a relationship with a man (well none I've met yet). The reason for the 1% is that I'm turned on by pics of a nice big cock, not in an "I want it up my ass" kind of way, more of an admiration of the prowess kind of way...
Like admiring a Ferrari. You don't fantasize about riding it... but you do fantasize about driving such a beast :biggrin1:
That doesn't actually make me gay, but most people would say it was a bit gay. So I guess my guage at least is merely a mirror of public perception that should be taken with a grain of salt :wink:
Again, a few things that I do or would do many people (homophobes?) would say is "gay", self sucking, fantasizing about threesomes with two men, and whipping my cock out in front of other guys (straight or gay) for a variety of reasons. I didn't want people bugging me asking me "so if you like those things how come you're not just gay?" Like I said, self sucking shows I'm not gay... because I'm awful at it and would make a horrible gay guy.
I don't think it's something to take seriously, the guage (this after writing 2 paragraphs on it) :lol: Just a fun kind of thing.
Slade