Question about how you judge "big" and "small"

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  1. B_DEATHbyCARROT

    B_DEATHbyCARROT New Member

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    Just curious about whether you ladies judge someone when they "unveil" the wang. Do you judge based on past experience? Or do you judge based on all dicks you have seen including those in porn?

    Also do you have different expectations based on race/height? For example I am a black guy of average build/height. Would you expect more from me than a short Asian guy?
     
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    I learned not to judge a man by his physical size. I met a really interesting guy. We clicked right away. I almost passed him up because he is 5'5"--- my height. He was so interesting I decided - what the hell! In time we became intimate -- he is 10X6 !!!!!!!!!!!! Not only did I find a best friend but also the best sex ever!!!
     
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    I found a midget who had 12x7 ... it seems very common in short people..
     
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    The penises I've seen in porn are mostly smaller than what I've seen in real life. I generally expect men to be about 6 inches. If they are bigger than that, it's not unusual to me because most of the men I've been with have been really big. If it's smaller, I'm not exactly disappointed, just surprised. My expectations are not really based in experience. I know my experience is unusual. I expect dudes to be at the high end of average.
     
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    When I click on your gallery I expected at least 9 inches... All I see are cakes? comon, do you have a small dick or what?

    Most men you have been with have been bigger than you probably, just like you say... maybe you fantasize about them been bigger than guys in porn...
    wow.... some people just need help...
     
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    Past experience - including the porn sized guys :)

    No difference between guys - neither in my expectation or the actual cocks. The race card is primarily an American issue - not a real life issue
     
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    Strange thing to say :confused:. How can you expect it when you know odds are against it? That's like rolling a dice and expecting it to be, say, a six...
     
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    I don't care how tall he is, 10x6 is extremely rare. Pics or it didn't happen. :cool:

    :lmao: hahaha :rofl:

    The race card is primarily an American issue - not a real life issue[/quote] 'scuse you? :mad: :irked:
     
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    I don't know if race is factor because I've seen some black dongs in my day that would put that myth to bed, in fact I've come across one mandingo (who i sadly didn't gget to play with) and he has a small frame, (on the short side and skinny) and one borderline mandingo, it was long and thick, but not third leg type like the other dude. It fit his college football body though and was some of the best sex i've ever had (he made me cry!) TOUCHDOWN!
    From the porn i've seen these white boys seem to be fairly in the running with the rest of the average black guys penis size, in fact some of them even bigger.
     
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    I can never tell from a normal guy's body what the size of his cock will be. I was with a really short guy who had a 9-incher and a really tall guy who had like 5inches. If I wrap my hand around it and either nothing pops up, or just the head shows, it probably isn't big enough for me.
     
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    Interesting test you use. It reminds me of the game from little league baseball we used to do to see who would get to bat first. Hand over hand until you get to the top. I guess in your case the more hands on the bat the more swings he gets to take.
     
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    Haha yeah. Well I know the palm of my hand is about 4 inches! So I gauge by that =)
     
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    Fair enough.
    Now what if you can get a hand around him and he can still hit or get close to the back of your mouth. Does he graduate to boyfriend material? :p
     
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    Wow, my head wouldn't even show. So much for me.
     
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    Females can't do it!Even my wife can't say what my size is after having it in her ass.Just relax and have funn!!!
     
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    Lol, I had my girlfriend guess my size and she wasn't even close. It’s not an easy thing to get right. I enjoy the threads about “guess the size” and see the large range of answers. The numbers don’t matter if both parties are happy. With that said, I wish she was right; I'd win the "biggest guy on this site" thread by a landslide. :tongue:
     
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    That is a generalization. There are just as many men who cannot accurately judge the size of a dick.....including their own....even with the use of a tape measure.


    There are plenty of people.....both women and men who can get close enough using different methods of measuring......feeling, touching, comparing it to something they know the size of.


    Trying to guess the size of a cock in a photo is in my opinion useless....there are generally too many factors to be taken into account to accurately judge.
     
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    I never noticed this before, probably because it was the holidays. I see it now, though, and will respond. You're an idiot. End of story.

    I am not a man, and do not have a penis. My husband has an average penis. Some days it's as big as 5.5" x 5.5", but usually it seems to be about 5.25"x 5.5". We used to measure a lot because he is a bit obsessive. I was once engaged to a man whose penis measured 10" x 6" on his best, and hardest days (which was most of the time for him). We were together six years. Before him, my experience with men ranged from 5" - 9" in length, and 4.75" - 5.75" in girth. The shortest one was also the thickest. After my previous fiance and I broke up, I met two men with small dicks, but all of the others had penises much larger than average.

    I don't know why I attract a statistically unusual number of men with big dicks. Perhaps it's because I have unusually enormous breasts. Perhaps it's because I'm tall. Perhaps it's because I prefer men who will let me make the first move, and then take over from there. Who can say? It is my experience though, and not fantasy. Not only have some of these men been measured with measuring tape or rulers, but they have all been measured against my hand, my arm, and the inside of my mouth. I know the dimensions of all of these body parts of mine.

    For your information, most penises in porn are about 7", and very few are actually bigger than that. No matter what size the penis actually is in porn, the advertisements will add inches. Ask anyone with half a brain and a ruler.

    I never said the men I'd been with had larger dicks than mine, because I don't have one. What id DID say was that I expect most men to be hung about six inches, which is the large end of average. Shall I repeat that in Spanish, or do you think you got that this time, asshole?

    It's not my fault you don't measure up to my experiences. Keep your bitter bullshit to yourself.
     
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    Your palm is huge.
     
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    Haha... I love seeing AE's retorts. Go Altered ;-)
    p.s. Hello
     
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