Question about Men and Porn

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  1. Imported

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    Athena: I need help understanding my boyfriend and guys in general I guess. Last night we watched a porno called "Kelly the Coed #7". There was a hot scene where a woman catches a guy watching her through her bedroom window. She makes him come in to watch her. They both get naked and masturbate while watching each other. It was a scorcher, watching such a private act, to hear them talking to each other and to watch the interaction, even though they weren't having sex with each other. The dude, Bennie, was a hot looking guy, built like a brick shit house and sporting a nice, thick dick.

    My boyfriend said that if he wasn't committed to me, he would jump at the chance to do a scene like this in a porn movie. He said it would be f**king hot to do a scene like this, even though he would only get to jack off and he would be on video for people to see. He is a college wrestler, hotter than hell with a personality to die for. He could get all the sex he wanted for free, without ever having to masturbate, especially in a porno for the world to see!!! We asked a couple of his buddies and they said hell yea they would do it also.

    So guys, what the hell is up? Why would you be willing to do something like this?
     
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    Because many of us are proud of our endowments and like the attention that can be focused on our cocks. Another aspect to be considered might be that it's easy to say to other guys, "Oh, yeah, I would be eager to masturbate in front of a cam", but when it came right down to doing it second thoughts might prevail.

    Most of us like admiration, however, and wouldn't be too proud (bashful?) to perform in this manner. That being said, lots of guys would consider who might see the movies and reject the "opportunity" because of that.

    This is interesting and I'll look forward to reading other answers to your post, Athena.
     
  3. Imported

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    joe22xxx: It's very exciting for some guys to be watched having sex or jerking off. It's erotic.
     
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    Mmmmmm.... Nope.

    I'm much more skeptical. I don't doubt your BF's intent or ability to follow through. What I see many times over, however, is that the average straight guy talks, but can't walk when it comes to being sexually adventurous or daring.

    No offense to anyone and this is only based on my experience. I've known many guys who make comments like your bf and his friends that they simply don't follow through with.

    The fact he said, "if I wasn't committed to you..." is his safety net so he never needs to consider following through with it.

    It's all a genrealization, though it's based on what I've experienced. I'm ceratin others will have different experiences.

    :)
     
  5. BobLeeSwagger

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    I wouldn't read too much into it. Porn is just fodder for fantasies, and most fantasies aren't ever fulfilled. In fact, sometimes the real thing can't live up to the fantasy. It's a fun scenario for him to jerk off to, so I would say leave it at that.
     
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    Aloofman stated it all with a much more positive attitude. Ignore what I said. :p
     
  7. Imported

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    suaige: I think it has to do with general attitudes about sex.
    Those who are more willing to watch porn are probably more willing to be in it.
    What is said may very well be true, that it is an outlet for fantasy, but not reality.
    Pesonally most of the guys I hang out with don't watch porn, and doing it- um NO.
    so I think is like everything else there is a continuum (?) Lots of guys who wont,
    many who would, and a lot of questionables in between. With the increasing liberality in morals in our society, I expect more and more will be willing to do so. but who knows.
     
  8. D_Humper E Bogart

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    Blargh, having a sex life at all is a start for me. :p
     
  9. MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK

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    I agree with Luke. While its an interesting idea, the cold hard reality is that we'd all risk the possibility of getting cold feet in front of the camera. Myself, I know I've got more than adequate dimensions for the job, but would I want to subject myself to the circumspect of my alledged "friends"? No, not really, because I don't need the hassle nor adulation or critism over anything with respects to my sex life.
     
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    I did some porn back in January, appearing as Randy Manroot in Titanmedia's "Men's Room," directed by legendary pornster Joe Gage that was released last month.

    Fed my bone to a well hung skinny Latino kid's face and squirted up in the air over my shoulder, not to mention all over his head and face.
     
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    Punk:

    I've always been curious - do you get to choose your "stage" name, or do you just get the next one on the list?

    Take care

    Ceg
     
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    you get to pick your own.

    i used to work as 'mark spark' but some of my older films were attributed to 'jeff mittel' due to back office mixup.

    this time, i chose randy manroot just for fun.
     
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    Fuck! I was hoping that Randy Manroot was your real name!
     
  14. hungthick

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    Appearing in a porn and fantasizing about it are entirely different mindsets. One, is about adventure and excitement and the other is about mock celebrity. Your bf says he would j/o only to appear 'macho' but in reality most men are rather shy and conservative and dont want to display themselves naked for all to see. A great example of this is camming. I have been on numerous sites where one can cam and rarely does anyone show their face and privates in the same frame. In fact, most men dont show hard on pics and face shots in the same frame.

    Porn and guys go hand and hand. We are visual and like to see new sexual stimuli. Your b/f may be hot and doesnt have to j/o but masturbating is not because guys cannot have sex with someone else it is something we do because we can. i know many guys that j/o after having satisfying sex with their wives, g/f and b/f.
     
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    i wouldn't appear in a porn film, but I would definitely jerk off in front of a woman... in fact the woman across the alley from me has watched me do it a few times.
     
  16. Imported

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    ren53511: I've made some "home videos" for my own use but only for my watching. I fantasize about others watching 'em but noway would I ever allow that. That's all it is --- my fantacy! They get destroyed soon after watching them.
     
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    Oh, that reminds me of on Cartoon Network's Adult Swim. This guy emailedd them and signed it Hot Tony. (He added that that was a porn star name.) Their response? "So's Engelbert Humperdink."
     
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    i've done home stuff, and i jerked off on cam for a few girlfriends. all in good fun, and since i have all copies of the videos, i can't be blackmailed, bwahah!
     
  19. hungthick

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    Feared i am sure that your j/os are safe from traders and from people selling them, BUT when you broadcast any cam it can be recorded. i should know this because a friend and I do it all the time and we are getting a collection of j/o vids together and selling them.

    Much love, :D
     
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