Question about men cumming.

[McClain]

As a man I know that men in general, myself included, find it incredibly arousing when a woman cums. This affect is multiplied when it is obvious that she is truly cumming very hard. I have always wondered if women feel the same way about men when they cum. Is cum generally sexy or arousing for women? Does it turn you on even more if a man cums extremely hard? I personally cum very, VERY hard and I have gotten some mixed reviews about it. I'm not sure if it is because it seems messy to squirt my cum hard or if women find it strange that I literally lose control of myself (not spazzing out like crazy but I wouldn't be able to stand) when I cum. Let me know your thoughts and feelings on this and I have some pics and vids of myself if you need an example of what I mean.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

No. I don't want to see pictures or videos of you. It's fairly safe to assume a lot of other women won't either. Just a hunch.

 

[McClain]

ok, I believe you missed the point. I am not on a mission to show off anything or else I would have posted in that corresponding forum. I am trying to get an understanding of the issue that I addressed above and have pics and vids to further detail what I mean in case someone did not fully understand what I meant in my explanation.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

If you are overly theatrical and women are complaining, then tone it down a notch. Just a suggestion.

 

[McClain]

Fair enough. I am not one for theatrics tho. It is not about show, it is just the fact that when I orgasm it is relatively intense compared to what I imagine the average male orgasm is. Since I know that I, and men in general, find it attractive when a woman cums harder than average I was wondering if women felt the same way too. I am sorry if I did not explain my question clearly enough.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

A woman likes his orgasm to be as average sounding as possible. Anything that indicates he had a better time than usual is simply not acceptable. :/?

 

[McClain]

That is interesting. Why is that?

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Because we don't want to know if it felt usually good. A sense of mediocrity is really what gets a horny woman off.

::sarcasm::

 

[McClain]

I was hoping that was sarcasm, that information was borderline depressing. Lol.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Some guys are theatrical like paid chicks in porn. If it's authentic, fine, but I'd you are playing it up to get her to acknowledge your orgasm, there are better ways. Like communicating that fact, not blowing out her ear drums for example. But hey, if she likes that sort of thing keep at it.

 

[McClain]

Ya I feel that anything fake is always less than anything that is real. I personally am not loud at all, it is more of a full body orgasm and considerably hard squirting of my cum (could not find a more gracious way to word that). I think the latter is what seems to catch women by surprise and possibly turn them off. But I am guessing, I am not sure that that is true.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Chances are it's not turning them off. Maybe you just need that kind of reassurance. When a guy is totally quiet I feel a little cheated out of aurally enjoying his orgasm with him.

 

[McClain]

I think I get what you mean. So make sound that accurately relates with the intensity of the physical orgasm that I have so that the woman is more expecting what will happen. Without being ridiculous of course. Is that what your point is for the most part?

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I think that's close enough to my point.

 

[DaisyDoesIt]

I"d love a little video!! wtf is up with some people?!

Please include a
1. bullhorn
2. moderator
3. caulking gun
4. at least one gallon of either
a. Elmer's glue
b. clabbered cow's milk
or--and this is a biggie!
c. 14 yoa single malt.

ps--if you choose option 'c' no other input is required.

 

[lil peachie]

As a man I know that men in general, myself included, find it incredibly arousing when a woman cums. This affect is multiplied when it is obvious that she is truly cumming very hard. I have always wondered if women feel the same way about men when they cum. Is cum generally sexy or arousing for women? Does it turn you on even more if a man cums extremely hard? I personally cum very, VERY hard and I have gotten some mixed reviews about it. I'm not sure if it is because it seems messy to squirt my cum hard or if women find it strange that I literally lose control of myself (not spazzing out like crazy but I wouldn't be able to stand) when I cum. Let me know your thoughts and feelings on this and I have some pics and vids of myself if you need an example of what I mean.

I love when my guy cums, I get off on it. My organsms are really loud & intense...if my guy quietly cums I'm going to feel let down. I want to know he's enjoying himself as much as I am. Though I definitely don't want an over the top fake orgasm.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

All I ask is authenticity from my partners. One is vocal, one whispery.
I'm all over the map/ play the room, but as a demisexual, it isn't all about the orgasm for me.

My exhusband, bless him, made a sound like a squealing pig on occasion, when he was totally lost in it.

Now, I can laugh during sexyfuntimes, and so could he, but we laughed so hard at that sound it blew the mood.
But I love leaving a man unable to stand/walk/form a coherent thought.

 

[Samantha Hopkins]

I think its awesome when a guy is vocal and expressive about his orgasms.

 

[McClain]

I"d love a little video!! wtf is up with some people?!

Please include a
1. bullhorn
2. moderator
3. caulking gun
4. at least one gallon of either
a. Elmer's glue
b. clabbered cow's milk
or--and this is a biggie!
c. 14 yoa single malt.

ps--if you choose option 'c' no other input is required.

Lmao. Wait. What are you asking of me?

 

[lil peachie]

I have always enjoy sex with my gf it is just that i don't like to show emotions, you know we are guys

That's kind of sad for her.... I get it that each person is an individual & we aren't all going to be the same.

I'm facing something similar with my husband..... I'm vocal, moans, groans, little cussing...he definitely knows I'm enjoying having sex with him... He on the other hand is pretty quiet up until he comes, when he comes there's some noise or an "O fuck/shit" but during just some heavy breathing, or a few groans or the occasion dirty talk. I've never experienced someone so quiet...so a lot of time I left wondering is this working? He always says we have the best sex & that he's had the most intense orgasms with me..... but I can't help but feel a little down about the whole thing.