Question about oral sex
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You could offer to trim her.
Maybe your woman just does not like to shave at all.
As for taste - the men I've been with said I tasted good (considering that they snacked on me for 1-5 minutes) but the two men that had a banquet on me, said I taste good in general but taste even better after I had a shower and washed down there.
You could offer to trim her.
I was actually just thinking about that lol. If it was a blade I wouldn't feel comfortable at all with that, but how much damage could I do to her with an electric? haha
depends...
tell her you want a night of her letting you pamper her.
run a bath, wash her all over, dry her, rub moisturiser into her skin, trim her bush {on a towel, to catch fluff}, brush her hair, lay her down, massage her, go down on her.
then it's not just ''i'm not happy with your cunt'', it's ''i'm looking after you'' :wink:
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This is the type of sex you have to be in a relationship so that you can communicate effectively.
One timers and sex rushed in, you try each other out and hope for the best. Then you could be more honest when the trust is there.
If you tell a guy, "either do it right, or dont do it at all" that is just going to go badly. Because then he may try to prove himself and that could be a disaster. Being a guy, there is enough performance anxiety as it is. Especially in the beginning, unless the guy really doesnt care and plans on "pumping and dumping".
So, have bad sex for one session, then communicate if the relationship is going somewhere, afterwards. And in a possitive light.
Example, "You know what I really like? I love it when guys go down on me for a long time. I need that extra time to get off. And sometimes I feel that if a guy is not willing to go the whole distance, I rather not even have him start it."
That way, you are not critizing him, but letting him know your concern. Trust me, if he cares, that will be on his agenda for the next time. Especially if he really likes you.
Or maybe I a just too polite. I am sure some of you will disagree with the "have bad sex first" statement.
One timers and sex rushed in, you try each other out and hope for the best. Then you could be more honest when the trust is there.
If you tell a guy, "either do it right, or dont do it at all" that is just going to go badly. Because then he may try to prove himself and that could be a disaster. Being a guy, there is enough performance anxiety as it is. Especially in the beginning, unless the guy really doesnt care and plans on "pumping and dumping".
So, have bad sex for one session, then communicate if the relationship is going somewhere, afterwards. And in a possitive light.
Example, "You know what I really like? I love it when guys go down on me for a long time. I need that extra time to get off. And sometimes I feel that if a guy is not willing to go the whole distance, I rather not even have him start it."
That way, you are not critizing him, but letting him know your concern. Trust me, if he cares, that will be on his agenda for the next time. Especially if he really likes you.
Or maybe I a just too polite. I am sure some of you will disagree with the "have bad sex first" statement.
I wanted to clarify the "have bad sex first" statement.
When two people meet and have sex for the first time, there should be some comunication involved, for the immediate stuff. "That hurts. More of that. Now here. Keep going. I am going to cum!"
But the deeper stuff needs to be communicated through a relationship because it can get complex. Or else you are left wishing throughout the whole relationship.
But we may have bad sex first because the worse thing you can do is to put up a series of "demands" on what you like sexually. "Here is a manual on how to fuck me right. Read it, study it, and I will quiz you later on verbally. If you pass, then we could have sex."
See what I mean?
When two people meet and have sex for the first time, there should be some comunication involved, for the immediate stuff. "That hurts. More of that. Now here. Keep going. I am going to cum!"
But the deeper stuff needs to be communicated through a relationship because it can get complex. Or else you are left wishing throughout the whole relationship.
But we may have bad sex first because the worse thing you can do is to put up a series of "demands" on what you like sexually. "Here is a manual on how to fuck me right. Read it, study it, and I will quiz you later on verbally. If you pass, then we could have sex."
See what I mean?
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The more sex you have and the more partners you have, the better a man gets at picking the signs that a woman has come. An interesting point above, where in porn men go down for a short time; never long enough for a woman to orgasm. Maybe these men don't know how long it may take, or they are imitating what they see in porn.
It took me a while to master oral sex, and I certainly made the same mistake out of ignorance. That is, I didn't really know what to do to make a woman come, or how long it may take, or the signs that she actually came. I learned by asking a partner to show me how she masturbated, and by watching her I saw how and where she stimulated herself, and what happened when she came. The next time I went down on her I imitated her with my tongue, and it worked, and from then on I had success not only with her but with my subsequent partners as well.
It took me a while to master oral sex, and I certainly made the same mistake out of ignorance. That is, I didn't really know what to do to make a woman come, or how long it may take, or the signs that she actually came. I learned by asking a partner to show me how she masturbated, and by watching her I saw how and where she stimulated herself, and what happened when she came. The next time I went down on her I imitated her with my tongue, and it worked, and from then on I had success not only with her but with my subsequent partners as well.
One of the reasons I gave up on recieving oral completely. Men can't eat pussy. Really, they can't. But if you dare to point it out to them they'll try to prove it to you by giving you a thrilling 1-3 minute lick that will rather remind you of your aunties overexcited dog licking your face, than please you sexually.
I never cared for the sensation either way, because I'm not a fan of constant clitoral stimulation. I'm really sensitive, and constantly flicking my clit will hurt. But I used to just endure it so I wouldn't upset my partner.
But let's face it, it's the age of porn, people. Ever seen a porno where a guy goes down on a girl for more than 5 minutes? Hardly. To make matters worse, ever seen a guy propperly do so in such films? Hardly. Men are thought woman cum either way and eating pussy means going loco on her clit for a few minutes.
Oral with another woman, now that's a whole different story. Woman can eat a propper pussy. Yes, after about 10 minites your neck will start to bother you, your tonguefrenulum will start to hurt some and breathing will be difficult. But guys, really, how easy do you thing it is to breathe with a penis down your throat? Sex takes some effort. Doesn't make it any less fun.
And don't get me wrong, I love penii and I love having sex with men. But I'm perfectly happy without him licking me.
I never cared for the sensation either way, because I'm not a fan of constant clitoral stimulation. I'm really sensitive, and constantly flicking my clit will hurt. But I used to just endure it so I wouldn't upset my partner.
But let's face it, it's the age of porn, people. Ever seen a porno where a guy goes down on a girl for more than 5 minutes? Hardly. To make matters worse, ever seen a guy propperly do so in such films? Hardly. Men are thought woman cum either way and eating pussy means going loco on her clit for a few minutes.
Oral with another woman, now that's a whole different story. Woman can eat a propper pussy. Yes, after about 10 minites your neck will start to bother you, your tonguefrenulum will start to hurt some and breathing will be difficult. But guys, really, how easy do you thing it is to breathe with a penis down your throat? Sex takes some effort. Doesn't make it any less fun.
And don't get me wrong, I love penii and I love having sex with men. But I'm perfectly happy without him licking me.
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It is an odd problem isn't it? I mean, how do you tell a guy, politely, because let's face it, men can't take criticism about sex. And to be fair, women probably can't either. It's too touchy...too emotionally charged. I mean how can you tell a guy he is just not doing it right? What I don't understand is him saying, you came. Uh, hello? Wouldn't I know? LOL
The best, and I mean the best oral I have ever had was with a man that had a very small package. I think he more than made up for it. God, the man should have gotten an award for oral. Every time. Every single time, and no matter the position, he was rock on. Sigh....
But, really, how do you say, uh, well, I love oral, but do you? Some guys lie, and go down even when they don't like it. You can tell. Really, a woman can tell. Or they say they like it, seem enthusiastic, but...oh, man I'd rather dig my own nails out....how hard can it be?? I too give signs, I even say, DON'T STOP, JUST LIKE THAT! and guess what? Still no clue.
Maybe it's a skill. You either can or you can't.
The best, and I mean the best oral I have ever had was with a man that had a very small package. I think he more than made up for it. God, the man should have gotten an award for oral. Every time. Every single time, and no matter the position, he was rock on. Sigh....
But, really, how do you say, uh, well, I love oral, but do you? Some guys lie, and go down even when they don't like it. You can tell. Really, a woman can tell. Or they say they like it, seem enthusiastic, but...oh, man I'd rather dig my own nails out....how hard can it be?? I too give signs, I even say, DON'T STOP, JUST LIKE THAT! and guess what? Still no clue.
Maybe it's a skill. You either can or you can't.
this is why i don't bother shagging men who watched porn early and had sex late. all the guys who were any good had learned from their woman, not from porn.
porn sucks.
Yahh. I guess I talk about her too much lol.
@the women in this thread- Seriously, tell your partners how you feel. If your man can't take criticism on eating pussy, he sounds like someone you shouldn't be with. Not all pussies are the same. I had one girl who could only get off if I licked her clit constantly for 10-15 minutes. How am I supposed to know that's what gets her off unless she tells me? Tell us what you want and how you like it.
I'm amazed it's so hard to find men who stay long enough and do it good. I prefer giving to receiving and so far every single woman I've been with has came with my oral. In fact I like to give an orgasm before penetration.
What I find is women that ask me to stop and start fucking, which I usually ignore the first 2-3 requests, or I go up and kiss her while I penetrate 5-6 times and go back down
What I find is women that ask me to stop and start fucking, which I usually ignore the first 2-3 requests, or I go up and kiss her while I penetrate 5-6 times and go back down
and this is why i fake orgasms :smile:I'm amazed it's so hard to find men who stay long enough and do it good. I prefer giving to receiving and so far every single woman I've been with has came with my oral. In fact I like to give an orgasm before penetration.
What I find is women that ask me to stop and start fucking, which I usually ignore the first 2-3 requests, or I go up and kiss her while I penetrate 5-6 times and go back down
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