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This question is really for those gay or bisexual women out there who have had sex with other women. This is coming from a position of curiousity and I don't intend any offense and I hope it doesn't come across that way.

When I'm with a woman, kissing, oral sex, breast touching/kissing/sucking, fingering her vagina are all things we typically do. Plus penis-in-vagina sex. For two women, I would assume that the first part of the list I enjoy would be typically be done between two women too. My question is about vaginal penetration with something other than fingers (dildo, vibrator, strap-on, double-ended dildo, etc.). Personally, do you like that kind of stimulation in woman-woman sex, or it that too penis-centric thinking of me? I've only seen two women sexually together in porn, so I've just got to chalk that up as pretty much fiction. I'm curious what real woman do.
 
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I've had a VERY stimulating sexual relationship with a woman and it depends on the woman if insertion is required or even needed.

We're not ll turned out with the same cookie cutter as you can imagine.

Now, I'm going to post this clip with the understanding that Porn is NOT REAL LIFE.

However...this is a rare outlier and the exception rather than the rule.

We're focusing on the dark haired lass with the tattoos.
Her name is Syd Blackovich.
In all reality she is better at sex than 98 percent of the men I've been with
and I'm very demanding in the bedroom in regards to skills set.
She is VERY, VERY good and anyone who's prepared to put their ego
on the back burner and watch they'll learn something.
I did and I and my female partner at the time were very thankful.

 

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This question is really for those gay or bisexual women out there who have had sex with other women. This is coming from a position of curiousity and I don't intend any offense and I hope it doesn't come across that way.

When I'm with a woman, kissing, oral sex, breast touching/kissing/sucking, fingering her vagina are all things we typically do. Plus penis-in-vagina sex. For two women, I would assume that the first part of the list I enjoy would be typically be done between two women too. My question is about vaginal penetration with something other than fingers (dildo, vibrator, strap-on, double-ended dildo, etc.). Personally, do you like that kind of stimulation in woman-woman sex, or it that too penis-centric thinking of me? I've only seen two women sexually together in porn, so I've just got to chalk that up as pretty much fiction. I'm curious what real woman do.
I have used dildos with two female partners. I'm not a fan. Then again, I don't usually use a dildo to masturbate, and I don't like doing something to someone else that I can't feel. It's nerve-wracking. I need sensory feedback to be sure I'm doing what she needs.
 

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In all reality she is better at sex than 98 percent of the men I've been with
and I'm very demanding in the bedroom in regards to skills set.
She is VERY, VERY good and anyone who's prepared to put their ego
on the back burner and watch they'll learn something.
I'll watch later and take notes. Seriously.
 
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I haven't used a strap on with many of the women I've been with. Only one. We did use toys, but not in that fashion. I haven't been with a vast number of women, though. About a dozen.
 

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I need sensory feedback to be sure I'm doing what she needs.
Thanks for reponding! That makes sense. I do “feel my way around” inside with my penis. But it’s amazingly how much more sensory detail my fingers can provide.
 
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We did use toys, but not in that fashion.
Thanks for your reply @Fade. How did you use toys? Like using a vibrator externally?

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Thanks @Tattooed Goddess - try saying that 10 times quickly. ;)

She is VERY, VERY good and anyone who's prepared to put their ego
on the back burner and watch they'll learn something.
I watched the whole video... and I did pick up a few things that I've personally never tried. I can't say that I liked the face slapping, but that's just me. I did see that one used a strap-on on the other after lots of oral sex and fingering. I was very intrigued by the sucking and breaking suction part of the oral sex... like she'd suck on the other woman's clitoris pull up and let the seal break... over and over. I've sucked on a woman's clitoris, but never tried that repeated breaking of the seal, sucking, break, suck,.... I might stuff that into my bag-o-tricks for the next time. The video was enlightening (and arousing watching that whole 30 minutes thing), thank you for sharing @Bonfire.
 
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like she'd suck on the other woman's clitoris pull up and let the seal break... over and over.
That feels amazing to me, especially in conjunction with a flick of the tongue to the middle of the left side of my clitoral hood. It feels very teasing, and also helps make my clitoris more engorged, which increases sensitivity.
 

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Vibrators, mutual masturbation with dildos on occasion, manually using a dildo on the other person. BDSM toys too
Interesting... so some insertion of something bigger/longer than a finger(s).

....and also helps make my clitoris more engorged, which increases sensitivity.
I've noticed this with just sucking with women I've been with... helps encourage the blood to flow in due to the vacuum I guess.

That feels amazing to me, especially in conjunction with a flick of the tongue to the middle of the left side of my clitoral hood.
I've definitely got to try this... the quickly cycled sucking/breaking suction never occurred to me before. ;)
 
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Thanks for your reply @Fade. How did you use toys? Like using a vibrator externally?


Thanks @Tattooed Goddess - try saying that 10 times quickly. ;)


I watched the whole video... and I did pick up a few things that I've personally never tried. I can't say that I liked the face slapping, but that's just me. I did see that one used a strap-on on the other after lots of oral sex and fingering. I was very intrigued by the sucking and breaking suction part of the oral sex... like she'd suck on the other woman's clitoris pull up and let the seal break... over and over. I've sucked on a woman's clitoris, but never tried that repeated breaking of the seal, sucking, break, suck,.... I might stuff that into my bag-o-tricks for the next time. The video was enlightening (and arousing watching that whole 30 minutes thing), thank you for sharing @Bonfire.

Did you see the way Syd kneaded the outside labia together at the same time as the suction?
Epic move.

If you lave with your tongue to make sure the inner labia and clit are wet you can push the vulva/ outer labia together using the inside of your hands from thumb joint to the end of your index fingers *thumb tucked out of the way*
and move them in opposite directions to move the outer labia to create friction.

Hold your hands up, tuck the thumbs and bring them down and lay them on each side of the outer labia with the hands proper laying on the inner thighs.
Bring the hands in until the labia/ vulva is compressed between them and move them in opposite directions gently.
The amount of squeeze, and tempo will need to be adjusted in line with the cues your partner is giving.
Moisture/ lubrication is very important.


You can also jerk the clit like it's a tiny cock using the inner labia so long as the inner labia, clit and your index finger and thumb are moist.
 

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with your tongue to make sure the inner labia and clit are wet you can push the vulva/ outer labia together using the inside of your hands from thumb joint to the end of your index fingers *thumb tucked out of the way*
and move them in opposite directions to move the outer labia to create friction.
I'm going to read all that more carefully later. Thanks for all that tips @Bonfire - would you PM me please?

I saw a good video where Nina was on the giving end, and it was more instructional... if anyone is interested:
Milf Nina Hartley teaches how to eat pussy
Thanks @lurker23 - I'll take a look at that video later :)
 
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