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Hey everybody I've never spewed this out before but figured might as well.

So, I don't think I'm gay. I've fallen in love with girls, and never really wanted to have sex with a guy, or have I ever had feelings for guys beyond friendships, "brotherhoods" and that's only been with maybe one or two of my closest buddies. I've been in two long term relationships with x girlfriends; one was a little over a year and another was almost 2. And a couple other relationships that were shorter. I love having sex with women, and I'm really good at it.

But, I've always had that question floating around in my head of "Am I gay?!" When I was younger I was shocked by guys with large muscles, they reminded me of superheroes from cartoons and I never understood how it happened. Now, as a 24 year old I still find myself looking at guys with muscles, or guys who take care of their bodies. I find that as attractive as I do women with great curves.

When I think of my future I think of settling down with a girl that I fall head over heels in love with and raising a big family of our own.

Has any other straight guys had these thoughts too? I've always been a hopeless romantic and never been one to want to sleep around, unlike a couple of my friends, which makes me think i'm different but I'm not sure how.

Anyways it's really messing with my head and would like to hear back from some of you who've gotten confused from time to time.

-Brock
 

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Hey everybody I've never spewed this out before but figured might as well.

So, I don't think I'm gay. I've fallen in love with girls, and never really wanted to have sex with a guy, or have I ever had feelings for guys beyond friendships, "brotherhoods" and that's only been with maybe one or two of my closest buddies. I've been in two long term relationships with x girlfriends; one was a little over a year and another was almost 2. And a couple other relationships that were shorter. I love having sex with women, and I'm really good at it.

But, I've always had that question floating around in my head of "Am I gay?!" When I was younger I was shocked by guys with large muscles, they reminded me of superheroes from cartoons and I never understood how it happened. Now, as a 24 year old I still find myself looking at guys with muscles, or guys who take care of their bodies. I find that as attractive as I do women with great curves.

When I think of my future I think of settling down with a girl that I fall head over heels in love with and raising a big family of our own.

Has any other straight guys had these thoughts too? I've always been a hopeless romantic and never been one to want to sleep around, unlike a couple of my friends, which makes me think i'm different but I'm not sure how.

Anyways it's really messing with my head and would like to hear back from some of you who've gotten confused from time to time.

-Brock

I haven't.

But it could also be that you just appreciate the human form. Maybe you have a hidden talent for sculpture or photography or drawing lurking somewhere inside you.

There's a difference between noticing a nice physique and being sexually attracted to and aroused by it, and a difference between that and having that be exclusively your sexual thoughts where you're not thinking about women.

Whether you're straight or bi, you're gonna end up in relationships where you sometimes find other people attractive. C'est la vie.
 

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Thanks mista! Helped clear out some crazy thoughts and angst. I'm actually an art director/ photographer so I'm sure that's part of it all. I think I'm coming to fact that I'm bi in some way, weirds me out a little bit.

Trying to be open to what life throws at me but as a religious person, it freaks me out sometimes.
 
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Thanks mista! Helped clear out some crazy thoughts and angst. I'm actually an art director/ photographer so I'm sure that's part of it all. I think I'm coming to fact that I'm bi in some way, weirds me out a little bit.

Trying to be open to what life throws at me but as a religious person, it freaks me out sometimes.

Most people admire beauty in the abstract. There are many women I find beautiful, but I don’t want to have sex with them.

If it’s “messing with your head,” it suggests that you’re admiring more than a Platonic ideal.

It’s good that you’re open to possibilities.
 
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