There's a spectrum of attraction and compatibility. Two different people will reside at different places on that spectrum. Maybe they'll be close. Maybe they'll be far. But there will always be more people near you on that spectrum. To believe there's *one* person who matches up with you to the hundredth decimal point is silly, I submit. Don't look for love so high up and far away. It's right here.
For what it's worth!
This is somewhat similar to what I believe. I don't believe in soul mates. I embraced the idea of serial monogamy. I've believed for years that each relationship was temporary and I just wanted to enjoy it as much as I could until it was time to end it and move on to the next one.
I believe in the spectrum of attraction and compatibility, but you also need relationship skills for long term success with a person. No amount of compatibility or attraction could have solved the problems that were caused by bad relationship skills in my previous relationships.
Knowing how to treat one another properly in the relationship to build a foundation that will last years is completely unrelated to attraction or compatibility. I have dated men where the attraction and compatibility were there, but certain necessary skills for a long lasting relationship were missing, such as the right way to have an argument without causing resentment and hurt, or how to resolve a disagreement or end a fight so that it's actually over, or how to express anger or criticize the right way. I've had more successful relationship with men whom I was less compatible with when it came to common interests and personality traits and sense of humor, but who had better relationship skills.