Question for all guys

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Mustang86, Nov 28, 2011.

  1. Mustang86

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    This question is for the guys on here. A couple of times in the chat room you get pvt room requests etc. I generally accept, then as you go on you get asked to cam etc. Then the guy usually asks if your bi, str8 or gay. I'm gay so I tell em, then they go. So for all the str8/bi ppl, why being gay stops you wanting to cam?
    Just curious
     
  2. B_Nia88

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    I know the answer for straight guys. they're straight
     
  3. Stuftpouch

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    There are just too many guys in denial on this site. C'mon its a COCK focused site.
     
  4. Silvertip

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    I guess homophobia must be more rampant that I previously thought.
     
  5. 6inchcock

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    I think on this site or any like it, if you hang your cock out, you probably shouldn't be offended by who clicks on your cam provided they are of legal age. If a guy looking at your cock is unnerving, disturbing or makes you just feel funny, then don't do it. Yes this may come to a shock as some, but not all women are women on the internet. Unless you see her at the opposite end, don't instantly assume its really a "her". For a small but nominal fee any stripper would probably hang an LPSG.org sign under her tits to get someone verified, so take the verification thing with a grain of salt.

    But the gay, straight or bi thing works both ways, as I have had gay guys cut or drop my cam as soon as they found out I am not practicing a gay lifestyle or looking for a soul mate. Ditto when I have said no I am not showing you my ass (I don't even look back there on me).
     
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    That doesn't really explain why some guys, who say they are straight, will private chat someone and apparently only cam if the other person claims they are also straight or bi. The issue is that sometimes guys who list themselves as straight will initiate a cam session with someone they know is a male but will only continue if that male isn't gay.

    I wouldn't necessarily call it homophobia as it could really be a comfort level thing. People are often most comfortable with those who are like them and sometimes using a cam in a chatroom can be a vulnerable situation, especially when you're getting naked and showing your face. It's possible that straight, mostly straight and bi guys are more comfortable with someone who is more like them which is why they seek them out. That same level of comfort doesn't necessarily extend to gay males and that certainly doesn't mean they're homophobic.

    Just an idea.
     
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    I think it feels better for the "Str8" guy, if the other "Str8" guy says he's "Str8" too :rolleyes:
     
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    Maybe the guys in question want to talk about fucking girls, etc... and know that you wouldn't be interested in that.
     
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    So there is a problem with discussion?
     
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    Str8 guys on here......roflao where?
     
  11. dolfette

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    some of the guys have a straight guy fetish.
    some of them think seeing straight cock makes them less gay.
    i never knew that until i started reading posts on here.
     
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    I'm more annoyed that they ask that and other questions that are in my profile.

    Look at the damn profile before you ask for a private chat if you don't know me.
     
  13. dolfette

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    i'm most annoyed that if you decline they'll ask you again and again and again and again. barely seconds apart, like that's attractive. eventually you have to block them.
     
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    Hmmm...what does a straight cock look like anyway? :biggrin1:
     
  15. dolfette

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    less bent?
     
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    This mainly. I normally use camming to indulge my fantasy of a threesome that I wouldn't want to do in real life. I do cam with anyone and I don't ask whether they are gay or bi, but I can understand why they would ask then turn off.

    If I talk about girls and the other guy isn't too enthusiastic I normally drop the chat and just get off. But sometimes they ask me to do things I don't want to (show asshole, if I'm gonna eat my cum etc) and even after saying you're not into it they keep pestering you about it. Better find someone who probably won't ask you to do something 'gay' than get interrupted when you're about to nut by turn-off questions.
     
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    Mine is bent...lol

    Perhaps it's just curiosity? Perhaps he doesn't want to have sex with another man....and just wants to compare.
     
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