here is Maxcok t when ya need him?
Sigh
Ok Mal...i get what you are trying to say, i do, but the vitrol is off puttig to say the least.
that's not satire. that's just rude.
a handful of vocal, pushy, obnoxious gay guys do not justify insulting the entire gay community on lpsg.
in case you'd not noticed, vocal, pushy, obnoxious straight guys post here too. it's not a gay trait, it's a human trait.
K i get that too. But he does have a point (small one and so blurred that it gets lost, but its there) Just wish he could have said it better. And not so much with the generalizations.
I have to admit complete ignorance of the context of the OP, but if it isn't satire then it's just a fucking horror.
I mean really: since when have gay men cornered the market on aggressive (dare I say predatory), unwanted advances?
True also. But would hate to minimize someone elses exprerience by drggin in my own. Again though, the OP could have a done a far better job with this. Maybe open a civil discourse?
No... I said some. Not even most. My point is, it goes totally unadressed and when some one dose...... For example a guy who's first memory is of a gay man, is sure about being straight because he's had sex with men in various situations just to be sure, was sitting in a mall food court with a gay man when he read that idiocy..... I:e ... ME....... I'm told I'm unsure of my own sexuality and have ISSUES. But I guess its what they go through..... So why not keep the circle going.
I still pose "why don't you just have anal sex with a woman?". As a reasonable question on a forum where there's literally a thread called "how to trick a straight guy"...... I mean yeah, I'm a white upper income straight american male which is not something society should or would allow you to be sympathetic to, but are we beyond simple manners?
annnd we hit the crux of the matter. You had a bad experience with a gay dude who was rude and questioned you. Guess what? I have had the same with some women. Diff? I dont make statements that can be inffered to mean broad generalizations over an entire population. As for the horrid threads? Protest them civilly or not so in the thread. It hacks me off to see threads like that. I think it sets back the gay movement decades. But I wouldn't respond with an inflamatory thread of my own.
Here, yeah..... Which isn't the problem, nor is the CONSTANT wave of posts about sexual acts with straight guys, the PROBLEM.... Well the 2..... Is that its a popular belief that just cause a guy is here on a site about dicks...... He wants to fuck one. And secondly, anytime anyone has an issue, male or female, they are called bigoted or disturbed and etc. Its not bigoted, its not even an opnion, is a gay man not wanting to be with woman sexist? No, its not who you are, and I say it again, I don't give a damn if you're a fucking child murderer, your sexual rights are worth as much respect as anyone.
Ohh... And I was saying yah to the UNWANTED advances.... But I'm also agreeing with the predatory part to, if you think I'm on a bigoted rant just search for "sucking a sleeping straight guy" and "how to trick a straight guy"......date rape is still pathetic and sick even if the guys holding bud light cans say mean things to you......
I think you need to step away form the puter, have a cuppa, rub one out, and then come back and discuss. Also open a word doc and write things in there. Then walk away for a bit, open said doc, re read it and edit, before sending. Yuou will sound calmer and less inciteful.
And again I do think some of the threads posted by some of the gay guys are disgusting. Those two you mentioned are way wrong. No question about it. But yours can be seen as wrong as well.
Pointless..... I dunno how I picked such a nonsensical topic. Its so damn off base that instead of behaving like children in the thread showing it actually hit a nerve, you just ignored me like you would anything you knew to be meritless and totally incorrect. Amazing
The trhead is devolving rapidly. They are trying a more high brow convo than the usual jello fight, lol
Shut up, you don't count. They are doing a performance art piece about how unworthy of a reply my post was by replying to it...... Its like a group of gay men and a bitter shut in english house mom all doing their own version of "I know you are but what am I"...... Your boobs drive them away.
Ummmmmm...rude much?
Meh...I`m just too drunk to even think about this.
When aren't you? lol i kid! I kid! ya know I love ya!
At the risk of drawing the ire of 99% of LPSG, I think the OP has a point. I do NOT like the way he went about making it, but he most certainly has a point.
Personally, I think it's despicable the way some men on this site refuse to respect others' ability to know their own sexual orientation. Why is it so hard for that handful of men to understand that some men do NOT want to have sexual contact with other men? Why is it so hard for them to treat others with the respect that they themselves would like to be treated with?
Although it is only a few individuals (relative to LPSG's population size) who are engaging in this kind of behaviour, I can easily see why it would make some straight men feel disrespected and hounded.
Again, I do NOT like the way the OP went about making his point, but his point is valid. 100% straight guys are just as capable of knowing and understanding what they like sexually as anyone else is, and they deserve the same basic respect as anyone else.
Preach it sister!
They're ignoring you and are changing the subject not because what you said has "hit a nerve"... but because it's been done before, several times and in more creative ways, and the result is always the same. It's obvious that you don't want gay guys hitting on you, nor do you want to deal with reading threads where some gay guys question those who are straight about their sexual escapades. That's fine and dandy. Alas, if that's your only issue, then you should know how to deal with that and especially on LPSG. And if you truly wanted an honest answer, then perhaps you should have picked better scribe to voice your grievances?
But whatever. In some ways, I think those kind of threads are a little annoying too. Not because it annoys people who are afraid to question their own sexuality on a public board, but due to the fact that there are plenty of other gay men online to pursue to even ponder the idea of "converting" or "seducing" someone who is heterosexual. Beyond the fantasy of having someone that others think are "unobtainable", what's the point?
good point. Though not everyone is "afraid of questioning" their sexuality. I think for the more bi members it can be a tad more fluid, and hard to define sometimes. If they then identify as stright (at the moment) then I suppose getting ration of shit each time would be fucking annoying
COurse True 100%'s are rare. For fucks sake I have a 1% straight, for my own reasons. If th op has messed with guys, and enjoyed it at all, then the 100% straight moniker falls short. Even a 95/5 split woudl be better.
Course I should point out that it is annoying as fuck when some these "100%" straights are seeking sex from men and then lambast them in threads similar to this one.
Unless they're gay - then they're FAAAAABULOUSSSSS!
(especially with plum sauce - YUM!)
LOL!