Question For at least %90 str8 guys

[638174]

i lkie cock. but i'm bi

 

[maxcok]

Yes, it is quite a good thing for me I am living the way I feel, doing what I like to do.
And if I want to marry a woman one day, no one can judge me about that, especially heterosexual guys. We all are living in a heterosexist world. If this egoistic heterosexist world did never care about me and the ones like me, why would I care about the way I am trying survive in this world?
It may be easy for you to talk . But I am the one that lives in this reality.

This may be the most self-centered post I've ever seen on this board.

I see no consideration at all for the woman in your equation, the woman who in addition to producing your children will be the "cover" for your sham marriage.

Are you planning on being completely honest with her about your "cock addiction" before you marry?

 

[cockaddictedboy]

This may be the most self-centered post I've ever seen on this board.

I see no consideration at all for the woman in your equation, the woman who in addition to producing your children will be the "cover" for your sham marriage.

Are you planning on being completely honest with her about your "cock addiction" before you marry?

You can call this a shame marriage. But in this system we are all living in, it is not a greater shame than this heterosexist system itself.

And yeah, maybe I'll tell her about that, maybe not, we will see.
By the way, don't you know about married family fathers sleeping with other men?
I mean, this is quite common since ancient greek . No big deal.

 

[PornForPatric]

I just want to say the original poster is apparently from Istanbul. It is actually quite common in Turkey for gay men to marry and father children. The issue is quite complicated.

I think the original poster is bowing to the cultural and societal pressures for a man in Turkey to eventually marry & have kids. Living an openly gay life can have far reaching consequences there that many in the US and Eastern Europe don't have to face.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBT_rights_in_Turkey

 

[maxcok]

You can call this a shame marriage. But in this system we are all living in, it is not a greater shame than this heterosexist system itself.

And yeah, maybe I'll tell her about that, maybe not, we will see.
By the way, don't you know about married family fathers sleeping with other men?
I mean, this is quite common since ancient greek . No big deal.

Well as long as it works for you, who cares about her? No big deal, right?

By the way, the word is "sham", not "shame".

Although "shame" is entirely appropriate - on more than one level.

 

[cockaddictedboy]

I just want to say the original poster is apparently from Istanbul. It is actually quite common in Turkey for gay men to marry and father children. The issue is quite complicated.

I think the original poster is bowing to the cultural and societal pressures for a man in Turkey to eventually marry & have kids. Living an openly gay life can have far reaching consequences there that many in the US and Eastern Europe don't have to face.

LGBT rights in Turkey - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

exactly . thank you for your understanding and empathy everyone thinks that life is very simple for everyone on every corner of this world.

 

[maxcok]

exactly . thank you for your understanding and empathy everyone thinks that life is very simple for everyone on every corner of this world.

Sorry, but it's still no excuse to dupe your wife and the mother of your children into a sham marriage and carry on with men behind her back in secret, especially as you know all this beforehand.

You're not the only one involved here, and right now I have more "empathy" for her.

I wonder what your attitude toward women is, but I'm almost afraid to ask.

 

[cockaddictedboy]

Sorry, but it's still no excuse to dupe your wife and the mother of your children into a sham marriage and carry on with men behind her back in secret, especially as you know all this beforehand.

You're not the only one involved here, and right now I have more "empathy" for her.

I wonder what your attitude toward women is, but I'm almost afraid to ask.

I am not judging you for being such a person, I don't have the right to judge. so you'd better not judge me for who I am and for my thoughts.

Thank you.
Have fun .

 

[redbear52]

No, I have absolutely no desire to fuck any guy's ass no matter how "hot" it is.

I can look at a picture of a nude guy with a nice muscular butt in with some envy and/or admiration and think "nice ass on that guy". But there is absolutely no sexual attraction.

 

[maxcok]

I am not judging you for being such a person, I don't have the right to judge. so you'd better not judge me for who I am and for my thoughts.

What do you mean by "such a person"? If you think I warrant being judged, feel free.

I'm not judging you for your "thoughts". I criticize that you would cavalierly use another human being like that for your own comfort with utter disregard, potentially ruining her life and her happiness for your own ends. I don't care what the culture is, your attitude is incredibly selfish and uncaring. Why are you compelled to have children anyway? Just so you can have progeny and appear to be a "real man"? It all sounds very dysfunctional, unhealthy and destructive. And selfish.

You can call this a shame marriage. But in this system we are all living in, it is not a greater shame than this heterosexist system itself.

If it's that bad, why don't you make plans to live somewhere more comfortable? Where you can live honestly.

 

[888abba]

Like yourself, I don't believe anyone is 100% straight or gay. You can be attracted to your same sex but not to the point of acting on it in most cases. I also feel that since you always been attracted to men from childhood to marry a women would be a mistake one that most Bi men make. It rarely works out,(even if she knows that your Bi) you end up cheating on her and it would be fair to her and any children you might have.

 

[Mongo]

Thank you Mongo.
Don't you find something other than ass sexy on a male physique sometimes?
In my question, I used the word "ass" because an ass is what most men like according to my own experiences with married men . We can put "torso, cock, etc." instead of "ass" into that part of question.

Actually, if I'm in the mood, I can get a certain turn on from seeing a cock, though mostly if it's kinda impressive in size. It's a little hard to explain, since it's not that I'm attracted to it or would want to do anything with it. Part of it I think is because it simply reminds me of sex (I have one myself, plus I've seen a lot of porn etc). The other part is that I have a thing for "women and size" (If I have a so-called fetish, that's probably it) so seeing a big one might set in motion some fantasy about how some hot chicks would be turned on by having "access" to it etc.

Other than that, there's nothing, really. I might notice a "hot guy", but in the sense that "he's probably what people who like men would call "a hot guy" :smile:

 

[JohnDoeXXXm]

Hangman got it right- i think for most near- 100% guys it's not about wanting to *use* the other guy or his parts, instead it's about identifying with him (as a "hot" guy) or them (as having a bigger dick or a more muscular ass) or whatever. It might also be the comfortable/alpha male attitude of the other guy that is one of those "magnetic" personalities that attracts others to himself.

I think that on the spectrum of sexuality, the more that a guy moves from the 100-0% towards a blended position, the more he has probably had experiences in his past which moves his attraction from a substitution desire (wanting to have a bigger cock or a better smile) to a sexual experience (wanting to seduce him in the game of flirtation) or hook up with the guy.

Any straight guy who says that he can't evaluate if another guy is "hot or not" is pretty much lying. It'd be great if more guys felt comfortable about reframing their socialized behavior to make it not about how they are seen by others, but what simply worked for them. Perhaps in the future, as the new generation of guys move into influence in the media, in the work force, and on the playing field.

For the sexuality percentage, I see it as in the end, what percent chance are you going to be with someone of the opposite gender or the same gender. I'm 100% sure I'll be with a woman down the line. If someone shows me their cock or if I think some dude is attractive, it doesn't change anything for me.

Now as for thinking guys are attractive. Yes, I can even notice a nice ass on a guy. But the thing is, when I see a hot guy, I don't think 'wow I wish I was fucking him.' Instead I wish I was him. I think about how much more self confidence I'd have if I looked like that or I think about how hot it'd be to fuck a girl if I was built like that guy.

 

[rob_13_incher]

i also can honestly say i have never felt any type of sexual attraction of arousal at any man or any of a mans body parts. it pretty much has the opposite effect

 

[0837s]

There have been zero times that I've seen a dude's ass and gotten aroused. I have absolutely zero desire to even try that. When I see a guy with a nice worked out body, I know that he has put a lot of work into it and I may wish that my body looked similar to his, but thats as far as it goes.

I have jacked off with friends and have gotten a bj from a dude here and there. If I do get off with a dude, either jacking off or a bj, after I shoot, I want out of the situation immediately, if not sooner- I have zero desire to be in that situation anymore and start telling myself that I "shouldn't have done what I just did" and tell myself that what I just did was wrong. When I am with a girl, NONE of those thoughts are present- I could spend an entire day with her after I orgasm.

As far as a woman's body- I can look at a woman's body and appreciate her beautiful figure. I'm a big sucker for nice breasts and a tight small firm ass. In those situations, I do get aroused with a woman, never a man.

Thats my story.

 

[mexdude]

Nope 0, not even when i was at the gym and most of the guys where quite cut, i was always more insterested watching ladies working out in the aerobics class

 

[B_625girth]

I'm staight, and if I see a guy who is ripped and got a great body, I never get the feeling I want to have sex with him. I am tall and slender with a lean, body, and told I have a great ass by my wife and other women. some times male friends and co-workers may comment on my ass, and I wonder about their sexual orientation. they say they are straight.