Question for bi guys

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by B_RedDude, Jan 26, 2008.

  1. B_RedDude

    B_RedDude New Member

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    Do you guys ever get "crushes" on other guys?
     
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    im guessing the obvious if they were bi.
    yes?
     
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    Well duh, of course they do! They are human you know.:rolleyes:
     
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    I'm bi and I don't get crushes on guys! I guess that's why I'm 60/40 and not 50/50. When I see a hot guy I just go weak at the knees, but I don't think I could ever form a crush... I dunno!
     
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    whatever...
     
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    Yes.
     
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    Have you ever seen my boyfriend (OK-:smile: I am dreaming butt anyway go with it)! Look at Monster and you'll see why I had a crush on him from day one.






     
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    The same here. In the sense of a boyhood crush? NO Maybe it has something to do with the fact that I didn't make the switch until late in my freshman year of college. Nearly 20 years later, reflecting on the past, I can't think of one instance where I've been smittened. Joining, lpsg last month, I carefully chose my sign-on which really describes my nature...I in for the sexual conquest or kill and once that happens most of the initial excitement wanes. Despite having good sex with guys that I've hooked up with, I'm not sure that I ever known what love is. Lust? YES. But someone that I truly love and want to make a commitment to. NO. Being closeted and keeping my guard up doesn't help the situation.

    My three closest friends are also my fuckbuddies. We share numerous common interests and do a lot of things together besides just having raw uninhibited sex. Emotional love? NO. And we often joke about the fact that none of us could be married to each other.
     
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    Was timed out for editing purposes so here's the rest of my post.

    Due to the nature of my work, during the 11 years after I graduated from college, my life was a constant stream of blow-jobs, one-night stands, and short-term relationships with both guys and women. Tho the sex was great most of the time, I just couldn't seem to get emotionally involved. Sooner or later, tho I wouldn't come out and say it, I'd start finding faults. To me, a partner has to be more than just another good lay or bj.

    Working at a gym, I see individuals in a wide range of undress. Some of the women with navel rings and tramp stamps turn me on to the point where I may fantasize about getting here into bed. It's happened a few times, but the outcome's always the same. With guys at the gym and co-workers, even if I think they're gay, I won't go there for fear of being outed.
     
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    PS, it seems like these would still be pretty valuable relationships, even if not romantic. Some days I think that having some good solid friendships is more important than being involved with any one person 24/7.

    Thanks for taking the time to respond dude.

     
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    Not so much a crush but more of a lust I think would be more appropriate.
     
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    for me its different.
    Guys can be *drool*
    Girls can be more like *oh*

    i think that when i see a hot guy, i would fuck them less carefully, but a hot girl would be slowly and tenderly

    but yes, i do get crushes on guys, but different kinds of crushes, if anyone understands that.
     
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    ummm....YES! lol.

    right now, i have a crush between the boy next door and the girl of my dreams. nice, hilarious, and slightly sad at the same time. I can develop a crush on anyone. guy or girl.
     
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