Question for Bottoms: Gotta pee during sex?

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  1. hoopy70

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    Ive been fucked alot in my life, but I am still tryin to get a handle on something. While Im gettin fucked I get a sensation that I have to pee and I dont know what to do about it. That feelin is the only thing that holds me back whatsoever from gettin pounded for hours!

    If anyone has the same sensation and/or any advice I would be SO greatful!

    Cheers,
    Jx
     
  2. Wrey

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    Well, that's a new one. I've bent over for a good rogering more than once in my life and never had that one happen.

    Try going pee before-hand.
     
  3. novice_btm

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    I have the same thing happen. It feels like my bladder is being pushed, although it may just be that it's the prostate being stimulated. I'm not sure, but I've just stopped, and have gone and tried to pee, but usually, it's with effort, and I hardly get even a squirt out. It does typically relieve things a bit though (no pun intended), and then it feels much better. I agree though. It is an odd inconvenience, and I hope someone has some better insight.
     
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    If ever you write an autobiography, please be sure to start it with these words. :wink:

    Fwiw, I've been there, seen that, and bought the tshirt as well, although it's typically a sensation I've experienced only when considerable (i.e. more than usual) prostate stimulation was occurring. :rolleyes:
     
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    I'm sure my friend is going to LOVE being told it gives considerable stimulation. I'll neglect to mention that the prostate isn't really THAT far in. So, is the prostate the most likely culprit then?
     
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    Yeah, it's most likely the prostate being forcefully massaged that gives the sensation that you've gotta let loose. I've gotten that feeling from sex too, a couple of times with fairly large men who knew how to use what they had.
     
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    thanks for the insight guys. so i guess its just something ill have to live with.

    like you novice i have tried to stop midway and try to pee but like you said its with force and only a little comes out.

    stoppin to pee also ruins the moment i think... especially cuz i have to do it everytime. im tempted to just see what happens if the top doesnt stop, though ill have to find a top into watersports incase i do wet myself. hehe
     
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    Hi hoopy70. If it's a problem, emptying your bladder immediately before sex might help. If you do that and it still happens, I suspect that it may be connected in some way with stimulation of your prostate. Whilst I wouldn't expect there to be anything seriously wrong with a lad of 20, if you're worried I'd make a point of talking it over with your GP. There may be a perfectly simple explanation about which you don't need to worry unduly. However it's worth getting checked out all the same.
     
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    Hey all,

    I've also noticed this from time to time in my own personal experience as a bottom. It only usually happens after a long session of ass pounding. Having my masters in nursing, here is my clinical opinion on the issue. I'm not certain about this, it's been awhile, but this is my understanding of it.

    It's probably from overstimulation of the Vagus nerve. It's one of 12 cranial nerves in the body. Cranial nerves are the major tracts of nerves that allow you to sense your body and move areas of your body. This nerve does a lot of things. One of the things it does...it controls your feelings/sensations in your pelvic area. Like when you bear down to shit, or have to pee, or feel like you need to go, or anything "down there". It also senses stimulation in your pelvic area as well. When you overstimulate this area, thru a lot of anal sex, it is easy to misinterperet what you are feeling down there. You may feel like you need to pee, or poop. But you really don't have to. Your just overstimulated. It can be annoying, or even painful. It can cause bowel cramps, some people will get light headed or dizzy (not in a good way).

    It's kind of like when you overwork your computer by having too many programs running at once....sometimes one of the programs screws up, or your computer slows down/crashes.

    Your not really 'hurting' your body. Your just overdoing it a little. It's best just to lay down and relax for awhile, take a nap, and leave your ass alone.

    Sometimes it happens to guys anytime they have anal sex. with very little stimulation at all. They are just hypersensitive, so much that it is not enjoyable for them. Most of these guys don't like anal, and usually prefer being a top insted. So, it's not always an intimacy issue for these guys.

    If your new at being a bottom, you may need to be gentle when your getting fucked, and give yourself a little more time. You may need some time to get used to being fucked in the ass. Not everyone is a 'natural' as anal.
     
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    I get that feeling occasionally when the guys dick is really large, but only after we've been at it quite awhile. It's never been more than a mild sensation though, and not enough to be a problem. I thought Buddy's theory of overstimulation made alot of sense.
     
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    I never had that problem, probably cause I usually pee before sex. What happens to me is I cum a lot from getting fucked, an automatic reaction. As for getting pounded for hours, I don't know if I could take it. Most guys cum before that time.
     
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    I'm just curious guys, and I hope you don't mind being too off topic, but is it a good stimulation?
     
  13. rogue_mj

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    MD here ......

    To answer everyone's questions....

    When the prostate is stimulated it gives the same sensation as needing to urinate. When we do rectal exams and check the prostate on men over 50 the digital exam often sparks a response from the patient
    "Oh shit... I'm gonna piss doc"

    Firstly, you will not piss. The sensation is purely a reflex nerve response as the prostate is not "supposed" to be stimulated from the inside! (If one goes by the whole the-female-is-built-for-the-male sex thing). The brain is not equiped to respond to the sensation, as it knows no better.... the brain reads pressure on the prostate as the usual signal to go take a leak.

    Now.... I don't want to get into the whole homosexuality is unnatural debate.... thats not even where I want to go.... quite frankly I don't care why we are gay, bi or str8..... so please dont everyone jump on me for saying the prostate wasn't intended to be stimulated internally.... I am just explaining the physiology behind it.... the anus and rectum were intended to be "OUT-chutes" (LOL) ..... I never invented the body... nor did I invent sexual preference.....besides you will see that I am mostly gay myself.......

    Anyway..... just as some of you have said, that when you stop the sex and try to go pee, there isnt any urine..... if you didn't stop with the anal intercourse and carried on beyond the sensation... you would not piss the bed.... in fact you may leak precum instead!

    As docs, sometimes when someone has prostatitis (infection), we do a prostate massage to check the prostatic fluid for bacteria, and after the massage there is some leakage of precum....NEVER URINE......

    (And just for a comment about the vagus nerve someone mentioned... it has nothing to do with it. The vagus nerve goes only so far as the heart in the chest. A vasovagal response is due to increased intrathoracic pressure from holding your breath etc. causing pressure on the vagus nerve in the chest or in the throat as it curves around the carotids..... if one gets a vagal response while pissing or shitting... it is from holding and pushing.... not from any response in the pelvic area itself.)

    One thing.....

    Do you know when you gotta go piss real bad..... and you hold it..... and you eventually lose the sensation for a while ???? and you can hold off a little longer..... Well if you just continued on with the anal intercourse the same happens.... and the sensation you feel will pass too.... so continue on and have fun!!!

    DONT PANIC..... YOU WON'T PISS YOURSELF !!!!!!
     
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    Thanks for correcting me. I hate when I'm wrong....but I like it when I learn the right answer.
     
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    Your Welcome.... Love to teach......

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    That is not always true, as I've had several bottoms loose control and unintentionally urinate while being fucked. While it happens rarely during fucking, it's quite common during fisting, particularly if the bottom is a novice and doesn't empty his bladder first. Note that we are talking about much deeper penetration than during a prostate exam.

    It is true that stimulation of the prostate does create a sensation like the need to urinate in many men. Similarly, if your protate is inflamed or irritated, you will often have constant a sensation of needing to urinate, when the bladder is actually empty. However, rough and deep fucking, or fisting, can result in an actual release of urine, particularly if the bladder is quite full. I believe this is because the penis (or fist, as the case may be) does actually press on the bladder, or at least the neck of the bladder above the prostate.

    I have one rather humerous story about this. I was fucking a friend of mine at a sex club. We had gone to the sex club because they had rooms with a sling, and neither of us had a sling at home. The intention had been to fist him later, but while I was fucking him, he lost control and pissed all over himself. He was embarassed enough about that. However, as we started to clean up, he noticed a puddle on the floor under the sling, and then found the puddle was very large. Finally, he discovered that his pants, which had fallen to the floor, were soaked.

    He was aware that he had pissed suring sex, which explained why he and the sling were wet. But he was horrified to see the volume of the puddle on the floor, and began to get very embarassed that he could have pissed so much!

    As it turned out, he was personally resposible for only a small portion of the big puddle. Apparently someone had flooded the restroom across the hall, and some of the water had come into the sling room under the door. He was much relieved to realize that he had wet just himself, not the whole room!

    So, the best plan is to make sure that your bladder is not too full before sex. Even as a total top, I find that good advice for myself. There has been more than one time when my bottom decided to fall asleep on top of daddy after sex, and I began to get very uncomfortable from his weight pressing on my bladder.
     
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    Fisting is a whole different thing... yes that can cause actual pressure on the bladder..... but simple anal sex will rarely do that .... unless the bladder is really FULL and the dick inordinately big....
     
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    Hi Dr.,

    I read your response to this topic. I have had this happen to me as of late. I've had orgasmic fluid to release during anal sex only with a partner who is well endowed. It's a very intense feeling that happens again and again during sex (I've done it for hours non stop in one evening. It's not a bad feeling and it's not urine because it's a different liquid, more slimy than pee and sweet smelling always. I'm not sure what this squirting fluid is that's so intense but I'm glad I've found out how it works finally! I'm wondering why there is not more being taught online about this encredible experience! Any thoughts from you about what this fluid may actually be? Thanks!
     
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    I get the feeling and when I get pounded, I can't stop the pee, to me it feels like an orgasm like a girl dose when she squats, I get an bare down impulse and get the shakes. I think I can say that's the orgasm. I'm no doctor though
     
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    never pee just howling at moon and i'm rock hard and thick
     
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