question for bottoms regarding stealth raw

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can you tell the difference when the top removes the condom without telling you? how can you avoid this?

can you feel the top cumming?

Who does that? I think I would notice if the top took off the condom. If I found out afterward that he did it, I would be outraged. I would consider legal action, certainly.
 

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i've seen some videos when the top "stealth" raw fucked the bottom and cummed inside. I'm worried about this from happening. i was just wondering if you could tell the difference.

also legal action?
 

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also legal action?

Sure. There could be criminal charges. Charges of sexual assault for sure (if consent included use of a condom, it could be bumped up to rape). Conspiracy to commit sexual assault. If they had an STD, they have a legal obligation in many places to inform you, and get your consent to proceed without protection.

In civil court, you could sue for any damages resulting from the encounter. Specifically including costs and damages related to being infected with a disease.
 

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perhaps the first rule is only to have sex with people you trust.

i don't think i would be able to tell if it was bare just from the feeling in the midst of passion

so when the top sneakily removes the condom u won't be able to tell?

I can feel it when the guy cums.

oic... someone told me u won't feel it at all.

Sure. There could be criminal charges. Charges of sexual assault for sure (if consent included use of a condom, it could be bumped up to rape). Conspiracy to commit sexual assault. If they had an STD, they have a legal obligation in many places to inform you, and get your consent to proceed without protection.

In civil court, you could sue for any damages resulting from the encounter. Specifically including costs and damages related to being infected with a disease.

o wow.. :eek:
 

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Sure. There could be criminal charges. Charges of sexual assault for sure (if consent included use of a condom, it could be bumped up to rape). Conspiracy to commit sexual assault. If they had an STD, they have a legal obligation in many places to inform you, and get your consent to proceed without protection.

In civil court, you could sue for any damages resulting from the encounter. Specifically including costs and damages related to being infected with a disease.

But where is the costs and damages related to being infected with AIDS going to do you any good if it kills you. Just don't let anyone not use a condom with anal sex period.
 

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I'm Poz and NEVER EVER ONCE consented to sex without a condom. Someone DEFINITELY stealthed me. Feel different? Nope. No idea. Condoms in my books don't work. I don't give a rat's arse about statistics. I defy them all. And before the stupid judgemental turds step in, so do my HIV specialists.

Mate, trust no one. I never will ever again. But then I've got my reasons.

And I can also sense the "never happen to me's". Ya reckon? If me, why not you?
 

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can you tell the difference when the top removes the condom without telling you? how can you avoid this?

can you feel the top cumming?

I'd have a top like that arrested, crucified and then publicly humiliated.

To ask a question like that refers to it as a possibility, and to a possibility of accepting that, as if it was as if with a cup of tea: one or two lumps of sugar or perhaps just a slice of lemon :frown1::mad::eek:
 

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This happen to me a few years ago, guy with thick cock wanted to bareback I told him no. He said okay, I put the condom on for him. We were fucking and he kept saying,"I really wanna bareback you." I said no, suspiciously I kept an eye on him and sure enough he tried to remove it and shove his cock in me. I blocked his cock (with my hand) faster than he could stop himself from falling on his face. I got dressed and that was the end of that. He was pissed, but he should have known better.

to answer your question, I think you can tell, but you don't wanna let it get that far. Otherwise you'll need to wait three to six months before you get tested. I can always tell when I need to keep an eye on a guy.
 

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I've had it happen to me as well... and nearly kicked the guy across the room in the process. Don't trust anyone! Especially if your judgement is impaired. Guys will say anything to get what they want. As the t-shirt says: "Boys Lie!" The top will obviously feel the difference, tho I doubt most bottoms will.
 

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I've only bb twice and it was with people I trusted to be clean (and they were). I can attest that I could certainly feel the difference between bare and protected. Bare requires far less lube, and the lack of texture from the condom led to less sensation for me. I won't be doing bb again, but I seriously doubt anyone could miss the difference in sensation...
 

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i mean, i would love to bareback. it's a fantasy of mines. but the fear that you may catch STD/HIV after a hot fuck session is so scary to me. sure it's hot and heavy, but after the sex, are you safe? i seriously need a bf. LOL