EFH33
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- May 17, 2004
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- Long Island, NY
- Sexuality
- 60% Straight, 40% Gay
- Gender
- Male
I guess it is the point that you don't know me that irritated me. If it was a close friend perhaps it would have been different.
For those that know me, I freely admit I'm bi with the caveat that I'm married and faithful to her. Yes, I very much enjoyed being fucked when I experimented. I just find it extremely presumptuous that you think you can determine for me what my sexuality is based on a few lines written on a page. Perhaps if I had included a vivid discription of how a love eating out my wife and fondling and carressing her soft naked body in the shower you wouldn't have been so quick to judge my selection of percentages. But then, that wasn't the subject of this thread. (And I suppose neither is this rant. Sorry Primal.)
To clarify, just because I have my "gayness" set relatively low, that doesn't mean that when I got fucked I enjoyed it any less than a 100% gay man. It is just a very rough measure of my sexual desire.
Hockeytiger... don't let anyone on this site tell you how gay or straight you are. It seems to me that most 100% gay men feel that if you enjoyed a sexual relationship with a man once but you don't anymore then you are somehow denying to yourself who you truly are. There's a reason people are sexual beings, and that's because we have the capacity to enjoy sex however we like. Society is the one who has placed the labels on us as being straight or gay. I applaud you for being so up front and forward about your experiences. I also have had a sexual realtionship with a man, and I enjoyed it, thus my 1%. I mostly love women, but this one guy was someone I cared deeply about and trusted completely, and I still do. If I was to describe a sexual experience I had with him to everyone it wouldn't make me any more "gay", and it doesn't make you anymore "gay" either.
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