Question For Bottoms...
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A real cock is less rigid than a dildo but to take a big cock, you are still having to be gradually opened up first otherwise you can have more issues with pain and tearing.
If you aren't used to taking a big cock, I'd suggest starting in positions with you on top to control the rate of progression.
If you aren't used to taking a big cock, I'd suggest starting in positions with you on top to control the rate of progression.
i regularly play with a "big" dildo and have from, time to time, been the lucky recipient of a real "big" cock the difference is immense. With the dildo it is you controlling speed and depth while the real one is attached to someone else with a different agenda. I would gladly give up the dildo but to find that one or two guys that can take me to the place they can is next to impossible.
with both the foreplay is essential as is lube.
with both the foreplay is essential as is lube.
Are you guys fans of the dooshing stuff for being fucked? Or do you sometimes think it’s unfair how easy tops have it for sex?
If you are fucking a guy with a big cock, douching is almost essential because they will tend to pull poop from your sigmoid colon.
I would still douche with an average sized partner because you can still get little bits and pieces. Some guys are ok with a bit of poop when it happens but that's an individual thing.
The other option is to ask a big top to only use half their cock if you haven't had time to clean but that's not ideal.
Douching sucks and tops have the better end of the deal.
whilst we tops definitely get the best end of the deal its by no means 'easy' to be the top, to be a good top you need to be able to relax the bottom enough for him to open up, and then be able to fuck him well enough, long/deep/fast whatever enough for a decent amount of time for the bottom to be truly maxed out before the tops cums. So we put a lot of effort into making it good sex for a bottom guy as well as to enjoy ourselves.
Nothing compares to the feeling of the real thing. Having someone insert their dick into you open you up wide is unparalleled. I am forever thankful to have an amazing bf especially during this pandemic to bottom for.
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