question for gay guys - anal sex and the prostate

[B_FatMushroomHead]

Never having had more than a finger in my ass...I am wondering...

When you get fucked in the ass, it seems like the prostate would get hit and maybe injured by getting in the way.

Is this the case? Do you have to be careful of it or is it just not an issue?

This is a serious question of anatomy.

 

[Bunny35]

Sorry to spoil your fun......Girls don't have a prostrate.

 

[thongboy]

When I'm topping, I not only go balls deep but I also angle myself to make sure that my cock is working on the prostate while I'm fucking a guy. It's our second pleasure trigger, next to that pleasure button on the bottom side of our cockhead, but it's of course harder to reach. But it's worth reaching. When I'm bottomed by someone who knows what he's doing, the pleasure can be awesome. In the sex toy division, I still use my very old fashioned, white plastic anal vibrator — the earliest anal toy to go on the market — because it's specifically angled to hit the prostate. Nature must have expected the prostate to be enjoyed, even though a hard cock would be the best way of reaching it. My gf says her one regret at being female is that she doesn't have a prostate: that's because she's seen what happens when she fucks me with a strap-on.

 

[jpk338]

to be fucked by a cock with a big head is the best feeling in the world. with it hitting the prostate with each stroke. one doctor said to me a long time ago that massaging the prostate is good to get all the fluids out. i don't know how many times i've cum hands free from getting fucked by the right cock on the right guy. give it a try.:smile:

 

[KenPaul66]

I think I might have had a problem with that once. I went out with this really, laid-back stoner guy from West Virginia several times. Well, on the second date he let me know that he was really interested in fucking me... Let me tell you what, this laid-back stoner guy turned into a demon in bed and nearly fucked me through the bed. I felt raped. It was sorta hot, but I'm never been fucked so brutally in my life. He kept banging my hole with his 8.5 and "hitting bottom". It was painfully, mostly. I didn't get a chance to cum then & there, I just wanted out of there before be decided he wanted more...LoL. That evening when I jerked off, my cum was bloody. Scared the crap of me. All I can figure is that he hurt my prostrate, bruised it, scratched it... I've never had a problem like that before or since.

 

[bi_todd]

A couple of years ago I got fucked by a guy with a curved cock that hit my prostate in the most intense way imaginable. He wasn't thick or long, but nevertheless he easily qualifies as the best top who has ever fucked me. I came three times and had to peel myself off the ceiling.

He recognized the unusual nature of his cock and said a lot of guys hounded him for that reason. Unfortunately, he lived two hours away or I probably would have been hounding him too.

 

[EdWoody]

Yeah, the hitting of the prostate - or at least the stroking of it - is kinda the point.

You'd need to be getting fucked with something sharp or explosive to seriously damage it. and that's never wise in the first place.

I mean, obviously you need to be careful to a certain extent, because there's a lot more up there that can be damaged than just the prostate. But having seen what some people choose to subject their assholes to on xtube, I think it would take a lot more than a simple fucking to cause any real problems.

 

[B_blackrabbit]

ive been seriously fucked by some great cocks, as well as dildos and hitting the protrate is the whole point! Ive never had any problems.

 

[D_Shermie Shtoinkle]

If you were never fucked so far you probably missed out on great orgasms.
So give it a go...

 

[Playinpitt]

I think I might have had a problem with that once. I went out with this really, laid-back stoner guy from West Virginia several times. Well, on the second date he let me know that he was really interested in fucking me... Let me tell you what, this laid-back stoner guy turned into a demon in bed and nearly fucked me through the bed. I felt raped. It was sorta hot, but I'm never been fucked so brutally in my life.

any chance you'd wanna give me his number? :wink:

 

[jpk338]

I think I might have had a problem with that once. I went out with this really, laid-back stoner guy from West Virginia several times. Well, on the second date he let me know that he was really interested in fucking me... Let me tell you what, this laid-back stoner guy turned into a demon in bed and nearly fucked me through the bed. I felt raped. It was sorta hot, but I'm never been fucked so brutally in my life. He kept banging my hole with his 8.5 and "hitting bottom". It was painfully, mostly. I didn't get a chance to cum then & there, I just wanted out of there before be decided he wanted more...LoL. That evening when I jerked off, my cum was bloody. Scared the crap of me. All I can figure is that he hurt my prostrate, bruised it, scratched it... I've never had a problem like that before or since.

I had a hot blooded cuban with a fat 8" cock fuck me for an afternoon. I should say that he used me. We started and there was no stopping him. We started at 1 pm and ended at 5pm.I never came but he came 3 times in me. My hole was wet and open for sure. my cum later that night was pink from him fucking me. It cleared up the next day.
there are certain positions where the dick doesn't directly hit the prostate. Try some of those. Good luck

 

[sjcgymrat]

If you are lucky, your buddy nails your prostate just right and you lose control of your own orgasm. I've never heard of a prostate injury. I'm not a doctor, of course, but I am willing to play one.

 

[B_ILIW]

i'm not a doctor either, but i've never heard of anal sex damaging the prostate. i doubt a cock, no matter how hard the pounding is, could cause damage to it. i think the bottom is probably more concerned with the pleasure, then whether his prostate is getting hurt. :tongue::tongue:

 

[macho8]

dont forget the sigmoid as well... but thats only for really hung guys.

 

[takeyourmark]

i tried putting a finger in my ass and i'm trying to find where my prostate is. so i gave up. it's a bit of a discomfort.

 

[psguy64]

Aneros - google for details for certain times I especially enjoy when there
are not other options available...or any time.

 

[Beachboy19]

Never having had more than a finger in my ass...I am wondering...

When you get fucked in the ass, it seems like the prostate would get hit and maybe injured by getting in the way.

Is this the case? Do you have to be careful of it or is it just not an issue?

This is a serious question of anatomy.

Prostate getting hit is the point, u can cum without touching ur dick if he's really good.

Prostate getting damaged would be something like ur dick getting damaged; its possible but only in extreme situations.

 

[D_Pubert Stabbingpain]

I think I might have had a problem with that once. I went out with this really, laid-back stoner guy from West Virginia several times. Well, on the second date he let me know that he was really interested in fucking me... Let me tell you what, this laid-back stoner guy turned into a demon in bed and nearly fucked me through the bed. I felt raped. It was sorta hot, but I'm never been fucked so brutally in my life. He kept banging my hole with his 8.5 and "hitting bottom". It was painfully, mostly. I didn't get a chance to cum then & there, I just wanted out of there before be decided he wanted more...LoL. That evening when I jerked off, my cum was bloody. Scared the crap of me. All I can figure is that he hurt my prostrate, bruised it, scratched it... I've never had a problem like that before or since.

Odd that no one has said that it is not the prostate itself getting *directly* getting massaged, fucked, etc., but the location of the prostate gland behind the rectum. So, it is your rectum that is subject to any damage. Other than the pleasure derived from prostate stimulation, each individual man may have a different reaction from how hard that area is worked over (e.g., the violent pounding). The prostate is a gland and is surrounded by nerves, muslces, etc., and as such can produce other than just fantastic orgasms. Some men have trouble urinating after being fucked. Also, chances are that when he "hit bottom" you probably clenched your ass muscles. Because they are not use to a hard cock being there, you would probably be sore for a while. Blood in your semen is a whole different issue. If there was a small amount, it may be some small blood vessals that broke and that is actually common, even after athletic competition out of the bedroom. However, if it was a lot of blood, I am not surprised that it scared you because that is not common. I recommend you see a doctor and get a prostate exam that every man should be routinely getting anyway.
Finally, sex should not be painful. If it is, you need to speak up and tell him to allow you to either change positions, make him slow down, or you need to learn to say STOP. At some point a guy saying "You just have to relax" repeatedly means he just is not for you. The fact that you felt raped means just that, you were. Better luck on your next date.

 

[D_Eddie Withagun]

The fact that you felt raped means just that, you were.

I think he meant ravished, not raped. Brutalized, even! Pounded the shit into next year! not raped.

 

[D_Pubert Stabbingpain]

I think he meant ravished, not raped. Brutalized, even! Pounded the shit into next year! not raped.

Oh, I believe in saying what I mean and meaning what I say. Communication, especially on the net is so much better that way. No one can read another person's mind.