Question for gay guys regarding bisexual guys

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This is an honest question for the gay members of this forum.

Do you believe that bisexual men actually exist? Or do you think that "bisexual" is a term gay men use to describe themselves while still struggling to accept themselves as gay men?

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not it the least. bisexual men are definitely there, and the have the best of both worlds. Ina way, i envy them, because i cannot 'act' away what i am, even when i want or need to. bis can get by without one side if needed, i cant at all.
 

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Well, there's gotta be. Think of all the people you know who lived as straights for twenty years, then went gay when their kids started moving out. They have to be at least functionally bisexual.
 

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They exist. I wouldn't include a drunken accident, on his part not so much mine. But they do exist. But I knew a couple of guys that actually enjoyed sex with both guys and girls. Both preferred girls but liked a guy from time to time.
 

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This is an honest question for the gay members of this forum.

Do you believe that bisexual men actually exist? Or do you think that "bisexual" is a term gay men use to describe themselves while still struggling to accept themselves as gay men?

Thanks.

Oh. It's you again.
 

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Oh. It's you again.

Hahaha! Of course it is.:biggrin1:

Why do you doubt the existence of bisexuals Henry?
Men as well as women can and are bisexual. My husband is bisexual as am I and I never had a problem having sex or being emotionally involved with men or women and I don't really have a preference.
I think I would have been happy being with the right woman or with the right man had they been available.
C.B.:saevil:
 

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Henry, I can tell you without a doubt that bisexuality is real. I know, I live through the hell every day. I wish, gawd do I wish that I was either gay or straight. I'm wondering if I will ever have the comfort that they each enjoy. This board is not the real world. In the real world, women don't want a guy that can enjoy looking at cocks or that have been with men sexually. Gay men don't want you because you still want women.
If I was gay, I wouldn't need the emotional, sexual, and just plain physical touch of a woman. If I was straight I wouldn't get turned on by men, and gay porn.
I absolutely hate it when the unknowledgable claim that we're just afraid to admit we're gay. Sure, some guys have hidden their sexuality, married women, and then finally admitted that they were gay. I'm not against being gay. I'm not afraid that I'm gay, especially with it out there "in your face" so much nowadays. I tried living as a gay man. I MISSED the touch of a woman, I DESIRED a woman. But, I am also turned on by a man. Your picture makes my blood start pumping faster.

Bisexual exists, and in my experience, it is not the best of both worlds. Each world doesn't want you because you're part of the other world. What seems like something that would be good, is a curse.
 

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Do you believe that bisexual men actually exist? Or do you think that "bisexual" is a term gay men use to describe themselves while still struggling to accept themselves as gay men? .
Both. I believe some really are bi and I believe some use it to transition to being out as gay men.
 

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If I was gay, I wouldn't need the emotional, sexual, and just plain physical touch of a woman. If I was straight I wouldn't get turned on by men, and gay porn.
I MISSED the touch of a woman, I DESIRED a woman. But, I am also turned on by a man. Your picture makes my blood start pumping faster.

True, gone are the days when young men could get together and rub one out. Yet, they could still have a girlfriend.
 

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Of course, there are also many '100% Gay' men and women who strongly believe that bisexuality doesn't exists and that it's a cover that unconfident gay people use in order to appear what they would say 'more acceptable'.

I remember having several heated discussions with gay men in Uruguayan gay chatrooms (yes, people, such things do exist), having to defend my bisexual tendencies.
 

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I have always thought it would be hard to maintain a monogamous relationship with a bi-guy. There's always going to be some aspect of his sexual appetite I'll never be able to satisfy.