Hi DBoy,
You didn't offend me at all:smile:. Remember, just like with all other aspects of people, there are many different levels of bisexual. However, you got me right. Men to me are sexually exciting, but with women, I can feel that deep emotional desire and love, along with that sexual turn on. I don't think that you really can guage bisexuality by percentages, but that's our only option here, and you'll notice that I rated myself at 60% straight, 40% gay. It's that emotional feeling that tipped the scale. Although right now since I'm single, I'm probably more 50/50. I'll go out with either. (That's a plug for anyone interested :biggrin1:, hahahah)
I see someone popped in an earlier post and said that it was just a stop on the road to gay. It's just that kind of lack of understanding that I was referring to in one of my previous posts. You see, at one time, I thought I was gay. At that time I had no knowledge of bisexuality and what it meant. I just knew that I got turned on by guys, so figured "Ok, I'm gay. I had a full on gay relationship with a guy for almost a year. We went out in public, we took vacations together, cooked dinners, etc. Everything that any other couple does. He was a great guy and everything I would look for if I was gay. I was very fond of him, just never got that deep emotional love that I have gotten with my serious relationships with women. With my last gf of 3 years, I even came to the conclusion that as long as I could "be out" as a bisexual man, and not have to hide the fact that I can see an attractive man, or get turned on looking at naked men or man-sex, I could be happy being monagomously in a relationship with a woman. But, she had almost the same concerns you have, only in reverse, and left me. So, now I'm looking for men and/or women to have fun with. (Damnit, another blatant attempt at a plug for me :redface::biggrin1
She let her fear of what "might" happen, cause her to loose the opportunity to be with a man who truly loved her and would have stood by her the rest of her life. This is exactly why I don't want my feelings to scare you, or cause you concern. As I said before, there are so many levels of bisexuality, including guys that CAN be with either men or women sexually, but may choose YOU to be that one in their life, above all else. Don't let the "what if's" or "mights" cause you to overlook anybody. You have just as much chance being in a relationship with a 100% gay guy, and it not working out.
I hope that I helped a bit. If not, I'd be happy to accept a trip up to Canada to help you in person:biggrin1::biggrin1: