I'm 43, and consider myself very average. Just came out of a 12 year monogomous reationship. I have a personal ad on another website and often get messages from 27 to 33 year olds with awesome bodies, great looks. I cant see what they would see in me so I dont respond or say no thanks. My question is If you have an awesome body do you or can you find an average body hot? I know everyones different and likes different things, its just a general question looking for an individuals perspective. I guess after 12 years with one person I am a little insecure getting back into meeting people.