JoeAgain: Just out of curiosity (being a grower), but if you ladies see a guy with a fairly small flaccid penis, do you just assume he's small? Or do you know (I know most of the ladies here know, but I mean women in general) that there can be a huge difference between hard and soft lengths? The reason I ask is because someone happened to see my flaccid little guy (I hang at like 3' maybe 1' around, hard is 6.5-7x6.5), and I don't want them to judge me on that. Also, how would you suggest I correct the situation? Maybe it would help if I explain exactly what happened- I was at my sister's house this weekend, and a friend of hers was also there. I had just come out of the shower (and the rest of this is what my sister told me, because I was unaware of this happening), and apparently, while I was drying my hair or otherwise occupied, her friend opened the door, not knowing I was in there. Apparently she took a good long look, and I don't really know how I didn't notice, but oh well. Anyway, after she left, my sister told me because she thought it was funny, and when I asked if she liked what she saw she said her friends words were "He's cute, but a little small". I could use a womens perspective here, I guess I could have asked my sister, but I was already embarrased enough. Part of me wants to pull the girl aside the nextt ime I see her and whip out a rock hard one and say "Look! It's not *that* small"....somehow I doubt that would go over well. Thanks in advance for any input ladies.