Ms blonde lives up to her name. For true!
I like anticipation, spanking, dirty talk tailored to me ... Amongst other things. Can ya apply that to all women? Heck no. one thing I can maybe give you: pay attention to each individual lover as INDIVIDUALS. listen to her, ask, don't try to manipulate her answers or responses into something that fits what you would like to hear.
Biggest turn on for me in the ultimate sense? A person who lets me just BE, without trying to shape or mould me. I am sensitive to this. If I pick up a whiff of expectation, I check out. Just create a space where she feels safe enough to express herself without fear of expectation, judgment. Listen, ask.
That's all I got.