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I think the point is, this is a relationship question. Men who make their partners hot could offer tons of insight as well. Each person is so different. You asked what turns me -- a woman you don't know-- on. Will my answer really help you make sex better? What I mean is, just because I like to watch a certain type of porn does not mean your gf or so will....just because I get hot watching the guy I'm with eat a mango, does not mean she will get hot if you eat a mango....? See my point? Maybe re-word your question? And post in the relationships forum? I think you'd do a bit better if you said, "I want to make sex better with my so/gf, what have you tried that turned you on the most or your girl on the most?"

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Ms blonde lives up to her name. For true!

I like anticipation, spanking, dirty talk tailored to me ... Amongst other things. Can ya apply that to all women? Heck no. one thing I can maybe give you: pay attention to each individual lover as INDIVIDUALS. listen to her, ask, don't try to manipulate her answers or responses into something that fits what you would like to hear.

Biggest turn on for me in the ultimate sense? A person who lets me just BE, without trying to shape or mould me. I am sensitive to this. If I pick up a whiff of expectation, I check out. Just create a space where she feels safe enough to express herself without fear of expectation, judgment. Listen, ask.

That's all I got.
 

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a dude with all Doctor Who*, Supernatural and Walking Dead seasons on DVD.
*drools*

*only the last 6 seasons are required*
 

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OP, one of the reasons peeps are getting pissed off is that this is supposed to be a forum for women's issues. You wanting to know what turns on random women you have never met or looking for a 'one size fits all' approach is not a women's issue. It's your issue. This is exactly the reason why we need a separate 'ask a woman' forum.

That is one reason why I don't answer these types of posts when they are posted in WI, when I would possibly answer if it was posted in Relationships - I don't want to encourage posting in the wrong forum.

Then as soon as you get smartarses chiming in with their 'why don't you stop whining bitches and just answer every ridiculous question thrown at you' attitude... yeah that pretty much rubs most women up the wrong way and guarantees you won't get many responses.

IMO it would have been better to post it in relationships and keep in mind that guys with satisfied partners also have valid responses - you desiring women's responses does not a women's issue make.

As everyone is different, I'm not sure how much you think the responses are going to help you though. Assuming that this is not a wank fodder thread. Sure, Dolfette could tell you what turns her on and you could try it out on the next woman you have an intimate encounter with... and end up in jail.
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