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I was travelling a lot but also home for 3 nights per week. One trip I met a married woman who was travelling each week like me and we shared a meal, and then we went to her room and had sex. After that, we saw each other every week, and it became a regular thing. One thing struck me was that the release of tension was similar to the normal release from sexual tension we get, only about 10 times more powerful. Really mind-blowing, like I needed that affair to re-centre myself.
In answer to the questions: she was on the pill, we'd both been faithful to our respective spouses to that point, and we were sure they were faithful too, we were 1,000km from home and we didn't know if the sex was going to be good or not (it was fantastic, and her release of tension was similar to mine). After, sex with my wife was much better: refresed, re-invigorated, closer, more loving. Later I found this is common when an affair happens in a happy relationships, and is often the way that affairs are found out.
So my wife guessed 'something' was going on, but was rather non-plussed by it. Don't ask, don't tell, and I assume as long as she was number one and special too me, it was all good. But she did become more open to expanding her sexual reportoire, which shows that jealousy is a big motivator.
Later I found out that affairs are very common, about 70% of marriages in fact, and that implies that we're really not meant to be monogamous. That, and my experience of release, recharging and refreshment that accompanied the whole episode. I suppose that swinging and wife swapping and open marriages are a formal way of heading down the path I accidentally discovered. Before my affiar I couldn't understand why, but now I understand completely.
In answer to the questions: she was on the pill, we'd both been faithful to our respective spouses to that point, and we were sure they were faithful too, we were 1,000km from home and we didn't know if the sex was going to be good or not (it was fantastic, and her release of tension was similar to mine). After, sex with my wife was much better: refresed, re-invigorated, closer, more loving. Later I found this is common when an affair happens in a happy relationships, and is often the way that affairs are found out.
So my wife guessed 'something' was going on, but was rather non-plussed by it. Don't ask, don't tell, and I assume as long as she was number one and special too me, it was all good. But she did become more open to expanding her sexual reportoire, which shows that jealousy is a big motivator.
Later I found out that affairs are very common, about 70% of marriages in fact, and that implies that we're really not meant to be monogamous. That, and my experience of release, recharging and refreshment that accompanied the whole episode. I suppose that swinging and wife swapping and open marriages are a formal way of heading down the path I accidentally discovered. Before my affiar I couldn't understand why, but now I understand completely.
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